I have a question.....
You say you studied your friends situation and the providers got more popular ect ect....
Please tell me you aren't just believing someone saying they got more business from negativity and such are you. Do you know how many here are on the famous blacklist. Do you also know how many ladies do not give much credit to a list such as that. You do realize that many a client that is on the BL still has no issues seeing who they may want to see.
Many have made good points here and though I understand your reasons I have no doubt your reasons will change one day.
With your persona here and no doubt your amount of p411 ok's you should have no issues seeing who you may want to see while being tactfully honest while sharing information that will help not only the guys here but the ladies as well.
Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
I don't know who is or who isn't on the blacklist. But hobbyists out there have been affected by it. I do have hundreds of P411 Okays and somehow I'm still able to schedule sessions without any problems.
if that includes me, you buying? if so set it up.
invite some of the ladies for some free talk time. ha!
Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG
I will in the near future ... I'm a regular at the Centerfolds strip club. I'm there so often ... I may as well just live in there : )
If you've been whoring for a while and still not on that list...you're doing it wrong. I was real happy when I finally made it. 
Maybe ol' AC sort of blames himself for not barking OK Griselda! Now that you know me, FACE DOWN/ASS UP and brace yourself 'cause I'm coming in hard (as I'm able to, anyway) after about 5 minutes of bullshit. 
Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak
+ 1
Lol ... : )
I need to see Griselda ASAP ... : )
Well EA, up there is your answer.
Originally Posted by Sarunga
I'm not really a viewer of FOX news ... I'm actually very Liberal ... Lol : )
You're honestly worried about these things???
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha ha
Dude...quit hobbying...this game isn't for 10 year olds who are scared to go outside at recess...
Originally Posted by Wakeup
I'm not 10 years old ... I'm actually older : )
I am comfortable regardless lol. But at least 15 minutes convos, could be about any subject. It just makes the whole thing not mechanical afterwards, since we were flirting and are both more relaxed.
Originally Posted by anita
I agree ... A 15 min convo is okay with me.
Exactly my take on it. I always start by offering refreshments and getting acquainted for 5-10 min. Not kissing until after 45 min convo seems excessive to say the least. The lady shouldn't impose her wants over his wishes.
It would be a different story if he talked because he wanted to. Not every guy feels comfortable jumping right in: some are nervous, just came from work, stressed or whatever and need a little time to unwind first. As always, this is up to him, but it is important for us to be sensitive to their need to feel comfortable also. I had a client talk for 2 hours before he made up his mind to give me a tour of his bedroom, and a handful of others who truly come over just for company and conversation.
Originally Posted by Johanna
I agree.
That is reasonable for both parties. And I say both parties, because admit it or not, I suspect that many guests are a bit nervous on a first meeting also and want to get a "feel" for the environment and attitude of the hostess.
Originally Posted by LexusLover
It depends ... some guys feel the need to talk before any fun takes place. But there are others like me who don't feel like talking ... a Provider can just tear off my clothes and then sexually take advantage of me (consensually in a "heterosexual" way) the moment we just met and get "busy" with me ... and we just love that : )
[QUOTE=nikkivikkisix;1056453021]For me I do the chit chat within the first few minutes, sometimes the gentleman needs an ear more than an Amazing blow job,and if that's the case I play with the stick while he tells me his troubles, If I'm in a talking mood at least I strip and encourage touching and such until I am ready to get down to business. If I haven't seen a fellow before,I tend to talk more than normal but just to get a feel for what they want,I don't ask about the weather I ask what kind of porn you like!��[/
I really like you ... you are definitely Awesome : )
I have to say she really is fugly. You can pick up a skank like that in any honky tonk in Houston. Why someone would pay for that makes me really question their judgement anyhow. Yuk!
Originally Posted by drax1
+ 1
Ya'll have conversations... ??
I just walk in, she nods, I nod and all clothes go flying off. Only real question I ever ask is, "do you swallow...?"
Originally Posted by charcoal
+ 1
Exactly, if I want conversation I can always go to the bar or even the strip club. I'm there for the naked fun. Which crudely put, involves having my dick inside of her, mouth or pussy. If she's wanting to talk, then she's avoiding the reason I'm there, the reason I'm paying her. To much talk equals bad service. Resting between rounds its one thing, but to spend the majority of the session talking defeats the whole purpose of being a SERVICE provider. That would make you more of a therapist or counselor. Who make considerably less than $400/hr.
Originally Posted by H.Hardhat
+ 1
When I started hobbying I met this girl from OK she was super hot but took her time and talk to me for about 45 min she told me don't worry baby I'm not charging you for this. This made my session intense I could really appreciate her doing this. I wish she came down more often.
Originally Posted by pootie tang79
I wish that chick had allowed me enough time to properly climax ... but she never did and she decided to waste my time, and then she rushed me out her door.
I save my talking after I climax. There really isn't a need for more than nice introduction pleasantries with well-reviewed providers.
Originally Posted by FrenchToast
+ 1
These girls see strangers every day, I agree. And unless she sees you as a repeat customer I doubt that she really wants to heat your life story. Like I said, a GOOD PROVIDER understands a man's needs, and knows why we're there.
Granted I've always had a better session when there's some kind of chemistry connection, but to waste the majority of the session in chit chat is just avoiding the reason FOR the session.
One of my best encounters was when I text the lady and told her I wanted to kiss her as soon as she walked in, no small talk just wanted to make out and start peeling each others clothes off. She went for it and the session was excellent! Now she's my ATF and I'm looking forward to seeing her tomorrow! YeeHaw baby!!!
Yeah it's YMMV all over the place, and in the pay for play world I have no problem with my end of the P, but I damn sure want to Play for my $$$$. The difference between a GOOD PROVIDER and the other, is the good ones want to play also!!! Maybe not so much for their enjoyment, but they always want to make sure you are satisfied before parting ways.
Originally Posted by H.Hardhat
+ 1 ... a satisfied and happy client is important.
She didn't want to know you. She just wants the money ( ..... ). Nothing new it has happened to me as well - just scratch her off the list and move on. But you should put a review of her so the rest of use don't suffer as well.
Originally Posted by matterm69
+ 1 ... she ain't on my list anymore ... I have moved on.
I'm giving them 150-200-250 to have sex with them not to talk (conversation) . these escorts want to get out easy, make the money with the minimum sex possible.
Originally Posted by letsplai
Not all of them are like that, but the ones who are ... are worth avoiding.
