It is our body and we are worth what we decide.
Originally Posted by Fiona_theone
true as long as you don't need bookings. if you do, you need to determine what donation rate is acceptable to your market. while i'm at it ... we are not buying bodies ... we are booking time with a person. there are as many types of transactions are there are providers and guys. what works for one guy may not work for me.
that's where this started to go off the rails. but no one really cares what a lady's donation rate is ... setting that rate is just part of the communication. it's a statement. where this
really went off the rails was the approach and attitude of the OP.
we don't need someone new to come in and tell us how this works. we know how it works a whole bunch better than innocentblondie. that's the big reason for her epic fail. it wasn't the rate ... it was was the approach, attitude, and tone ... or lack of tone.
i enjoy a lady whose style is witty, flirty, sexy, ... doesn't have to be humble but should show some gratitude for being contacted because there are literally hundreds of alternatives available. btw ... none of this has to be real or authentic. sincerity is not required ... just the appearance of sincerity.
i have had wonderful experiences with providers. they have been great to me. i attribute that to their generous natures and the fact that i am a really fussy old man when it comes to my selection process.
innocent blondie has a cute face .. but i was never tempted to contact her. and it had nothing to do with her donation rate. not a good sign when you have to convince your audience that .. despite all evidence to the contrary .. you are 'really sweet'.
those who know me know that I'm actually really sweet and super soft spoken.
Originally Posted by Innocentblondie
according to the OP .. the ship has sailed. I would say most guys here would say ... without animosity ... bon voyage. we wish her well ...hope she gets what she wants and has fun.
if she wants to be an eccie provider (and keep in mind that she has said more than once .. that she does not want to be an eccie provider ... just has a pussy and wants to make some money off it ... first big mistake) .. i would suggest she begin her uphill climb with something like:
gentlemen, lets try it this way. why don't you suggest the sort of session or date you want with me. if i accept, we'll have a date and .. at the end of our date, you determine what the donation should be, consistent with the prevailing rates ... what it was worth to you.
if she is as good as she thinks ... this will work for her. btw ... it's been done successfully by others.
Originally Posted by Innocentblondie
