Deal Breakers for providers

I had a feeling you were gonna day that lol. Us Houston guys get no love

There's nothing wrong with rough sex all night long. Some ladies like that.. not all.. obviously. Just saying.. ok im done. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I think "rough" is an entirely misinterpreted adjective for the type of sessions I'm having. I'm not blougening or impaling helpless providers by any means. I'm very honest about what I seek. I'm not trying to hurt anyone.....but your very correct in that there are ladies who like sessions that take them to their limits. I'm a giver and I like to overwhelm just as much as some ladies do to the guys. So this definitely makes booking those types of sessions fairly easy.

Only in the hobby have I been affforded that oppurtunity to do that regularly. Some ladies rather not go out an do the dinneer date thing for their own discretion....for some ladies its harder to do that as they cater conversation to your comfortability. But the sex in its most sincerest forms.......even if she's thinking about brad pitt...........is all real.

I like to work up a lather in session just like any other guy would. Only time I'm rough is when a lady says "fuck me harder" and even then I take it easy. I wouldn't assume a lady not accustomed to that wouldn't be interested, but luckily there's always a few.

Turn off's but may not result in me opting out a visit are:.....
4) Knowing I may be a gent's ATF, but he fails to meantion me when he posts in relative related threads. Again goes back to BS. Originally Posted by TheHorseTrainer

Mention you in relative threads.....you mean like a ATF whiteknight would. Are you speaking of a continuous cosign...thread by thread that mentions you.....that would be kinda strange to hope or assume a guy would do. Just cause he sees you regularly.

Also your p411 link in your signature does not work. It takes you to the site but not the profile. I was tryna be nosy I guess.

Only time I'm rough is when a lady says "fuck me harder" Originally Posted by gimme_that

Sounds like something I would say.

Mocha baby, I'm not being/faking stupid on pupose, honest...What are you talking about?? Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Seeing rates or going to a site and asking rates on the phone and/or in person.

Reading an ad saying you didn't and proceeding to ask everything the ad can answer.

Being an experience hobbyist and asking well-known hot/illegal questions...


are just a few things. ..... pretty much being stupid/faking stupid on purpose is what it sounds like.

Mention you in relative threads.....you mean like a ATF whiteknight would. Are you speaking of a continuous cosign...thread by thread that mentions you.....that would be kinda strange to hope or assume a guy would do. Just cause he sees you regularly.

Also your p411 link in your signature does not work. It takes you to the site but not the profile. I was tryna be nosy I guess. Originally Posted by gimme_that

No I don't mean white knight, or a thread about me. I mean more like if you were to tell me I had gorgeous eyes, etc and a thread came up about it, meantioning my name is all. Or something like a ATF thread, if I was told BY the gentleman I was ONE of his ATF's then why not meantion me??? Does it matter if I am not a local?

I checked the link and it took me straight to my p411 profile, it may not if you are not a member. My profile there is for members only.

My profile there is for members only. Originally Posted by TheHorseTrainer

Ok. Yeah I jst figured that out. I had to sign in to view it. I'm glad all profiles aren't like that as its sometimes inconvient to have to sign in for info...but I understand why some ladies want info private.

"4) Knowing I may be a gent's ATF, but he fails to meantion me when he posts in relative related threads. Again goes back to BS."

IF I have an ATF, it is really nobody's business.

One thing I discovered a while ago is that people lack a sense of proportionality and sometimes, for reasons completely unrelated to the hobby, etc., if they know who you like, they will go out of their way to throw a wrench in the gears simply out of spite.

Of course, anyone who would be an ATF of mine would be relatively immune to such attempts anyway; but I wouldn't want her inconvenienced.

So if I have an ATF, one person knows who she is: her. And she's a plenty smart enough lady that she doesn't need me doing ad hoc marketing duty. LOL

"4) Knowing I may be a gent's ATF, but he fails to meantion me when he posts in relative related threads. Again goes back to BS."

IF I have an ATF, it is really nobody's business.

One thing I discovered a while ago is that people lack a sense of proportionality and sometimes, for reasons completely unrelated to the hobby, etc., if they know who you like, they will go out of their way to throw a wrench in the gears simply out of spite.

Of course, anyone who would be an ATF of mine would be relatively immune to such attempts anyway; but I wouldn't want her inconvenienced.

So if I have an ATF, one person knows who she is: her. And she's a plenty smart enough lady that she doesn't need me doing ad hoc marketing duty. LOL Originally Posted by Laurentius

I do understand the nasty trolls out there too darlin .. I'm just saying if THEY do post and mention other ladies why not me too??? Is that to much to ask?

I don't want a white knight at all! I rather reviews be honest and not hyped up so that others would know it's the real deal not just a story!

Ok. Yeah I jst figured that out. I had to sign in to view it. I'm glad all profiles aren't like that as its sometimes inconvient to have to sign in for info...but I understand why some ladies want info private. Originally Posted by gimme_that

Being I have a real life business I try to keep things fairly low key ..

I do understand the nasty trolls out there too darlin .. I'm just saying if THEY do post and mention other ladies why not me too??? Is that to much to ask? Originally Posted by TheHorseTrainer

Within that context, no, it isn't unreasonable.

Of course, other than my cyber lover, I don't really mention providers by name in postings in order to assure their privacy. After all, knowing that a lady has seen me might hurt her reputation! (*grin*)

Has an STD. refuses to talk on the phone, texts are fine, but eventually I want to hear a real person. Is the size of a porn star. asks if we actually have to wear condoms (this makes me assume that he does bbfs), asks me to lower my rate, asks to be my "black daddy" (had this happen several times), is younger than me (I am 25,and it is actually a turn off to be with someone younger than me), asks to see nude pics and we haven't met yet. I want to feel respected,which in return lets me provide my clients a great time because it really is about what they want. Originally Posted by SarahAndFriends

What is a "black daddy"?

What is a "black daddy"? Originally Posted by jeenababy1

Within that context, no, it isn't unreasonable.

Of course, other than my cyber lover, I don't really mention providers by name in postings in order to assure their privacy. After all, knowing that a lady has seen me might hurt her reputation! (*grin*) Originally Posted by Laurentius

You have a cyber lover? Who is she? I'll kill her.

You have a cyber lover? Who is she? I'll kill her. Originally Posted by China Doll

That would be YOU, dearest Ms. Doll!

You are absolutely not allowed to harm a hair on my cyber lover's head! (*grin*)