Questions for the guys: why do you hobby?

You need to add another poll option-
I would never be able to bang a chick that hot without paying for it

Been married for two decades. Faithful the whole time but my wife has let herself go and her sex drive has dropped. Missionary once every two weeks just ain't cutting it anymore and life is short. I work out regularly and do my best to stay in shape. I still love her and it's cheaper to keep her but I need a little more variety from time to time to stay sane.

I like to play with Barbies sometimes!

In the past, I started to hobby when I was married, missed the womanly touch. Now that I'm divorced, I RARELY hobby anymore, guess I like money too much to just give it away, like I did in the past

I'm single, pretty young, and have a high paying tech job. I tried hobbying once when I was in college with barely any money, and had an amazing experience compared to anything in real life. Got addicted to the good sex after that. Girls in real life just don't know how to give good blowjobs or a lot can't even do positions like cowgirl. Many of them also expect a large amount of commitment when they don't really offer anything to the relationship themselves except their beauty which fades. So right now I'm really just paying for the girls to leave after they give me an experience that's too much work to get in real life. After a while of hobbying, it just seems like so much work comparitively sometimes to even go out to the bars or use Tinder when the odds are kinda stacked against men. I could spend days or weeks trying to game on a girl or I could just pay someone the amount I make in half to a full day. And you can still fail (which I do all the time) on civilizans when hobbying is guaranteed. If you calculate the amount you make at work and compare it to the amount of time wasted on real life game, it looks like to me that hobbying is just a better deal for my situation. Yes, I literally do the math before I make decisions hobbying lol.

Unfortunately though, I've been getting more into having sex with civies again because Austin is getting kinda not worth it anymore after sesta imo. I'm thinking of trying to save my hobby money and go overseas a bit more or at least hit up Dallas more often. Especially because like half the really hot girls here are racist and say things like no AA or no young guys. Even though I make more then the average 50 year old, I'm still black & young at the end of the day.

I'm actually trying to figure out that myself.

I hobby because I've never been good at even asking a girl out, let alone actual dating. I'm very shy, nervous, and have lived with depression my entire life. I got lucky with a couple casual encounters back in the days of CL, and began to prefer the company of strangers. I started hobbying after seeing an ad that offered bbjcim, something that no girl ever wanted to do in real life. That's all I've wanted since then.

What about those of us who are single and don't fall into either the "don't have time to date" or "prefer variety over relationships" categories?

I have time to date; I just haven't dated anyone in a long while that lead to anything physical. I personally prefer being in a relationship and not hobby at all.

Am I an aberration here? Originally Posted by chitowntransplant69

Nah you aren't alone. When I was single I hated the social pressure of dating someone and trying to be on best behavior while spending a shitload on someone that could or most of the time not lead to anything. But while having a SO I don't hobby out of respect for her and she takes pretty good care of me. I come back here to kill time and read Miss V's shit posts the last couple years

If you're single, do you hobby because you don't have time for a relationship? Or don't want a relationship but obviously still have needs? Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Two parts for me:

1.) I'm not interested in having a relationship or a family.

2.) I can reliably sleep with women who look like porn stars or centerfolds with little wasted time.

Great thread and read!

Been married for two decades. Faithful the whole time but my wife has let herself go and her sex drive has dropped. Missionary once every two weeks just ain't cutting it anymore and life is short. I work out regularly and do my best to stay in shape. I still love her and it's cheaper to keep her but I need a little more variety from time to time to stay sane. Originally Posted by BlackSails

This nailed it for me. My SO will bring out moderate kink every few months with toys but I've broached what I enjoy with providers in a subtle way and get a hard "no".

You have one life. Live it.

You bumping this old thread brings back memories of her showcase with extremely dark butthole pics.


Carry on.

You bumping this old thread brings back memories of her showcase with extremely dark butthole pics.


Carry on. Originally Posted by Kickrocks

Opinions are like assholes and mine is pink.

Opinions are like assholes and mine is pink. Originally Posted by Miss Valentina

My heart feels warmth with Ms V posting in co/ed !

I don't think I've seen a poll where the responses were so evenly split.

Back when I way hobbying on a regular basis, it was the variety and the enjoiyment of having sex with a different woman. Every woman is different sexually and it is exhilarating exploring those differences - what turns them on and what they do to turn you on, and how well they do it.

Opinions are like assholes and mine is pink. Originally Posted by Miss Valentina

I like them pink too, but prefer them on the dark side. That way I dont forget what comes out of it. Reminds me to keep my mouth north of there.