Scribe tell yourself whatever you want to, but you and I both know that it's not the same kind of paying for it buddy. One form is traditional paying the mortgage,bills,car payments, etc and the other is pay me now up front.
Completely different buddy
Originally Posted by suiram77
what you think we do with the upfront money you give us lol ?
No the difference is a civie woman you can fuck before you pay her bills (or just fuck her and never do anything for her) OR you can pay her bills before you ever fuck her. (something i'm sure you would NEVER do, before sampling the goods) Only men who really CARE pay for shit before they ever fuck a woman.
A provider isnt falling for that shit. You only want one thing and I need my bills paid.
No ADULT man is interested in a woman he didn't grow up with or work with for anything initially BUT to fuck her/ he is sexually attracted to her.
This is so much so that men will pay to fuck a woman to hurry up and get what he wants. If it were up to the men claiming providers can not be loved, they would be able to just walk up to a woman and fuck her soon as they introduce themselves, she would just drop them panties.
This profession wouldn't be here if there was not a serious need for it to be here. If men did not NEED sexual gratification.
and as someone said, when a provider starts calling you just to talk, not set up up an appointment, or invites you to do something NON SEXUAL with her one day , then those are signs that a woman likes you for more than just a client.
I am not saying it happens all the time, after all attraction, location, chemistry all have to be right for this to happen, on both ends it must be right.
Yes the want for INSTANT GRATIFICATION and the lucrative trade of being a provider of INSTANT GRATIFICATION is what brings both us men and women here (and to several other industries in the world that make money off people who want instant gratification), but we ALL KNOW money does not make you happy. money does not buy happiness, true love does and making progress in life is what makes you happy, and helping other people is the MOST fulfilling thing you can do on this world period.. even BETTER than having sex when you GENUINELY do something to help another living being.
I want a successful man i can watch progress, and i want him to also be proud of me for being a top escort , and anything else i pursue. Genuinely.
(and yes there are men whom are proud of their woman being a top escort, not all men see it as just laying on your back, because i know i spend way more energy and time for hours before and after an appointment, but you wouldnt know just how much time, energy and effort it takes to do this job RIGHT and progress within it unless you are there to SEE with your own eyes behind the scenes, or at least can not have a chauvanist mentality and feel like being a PROFESSIONAL escort is not a "real job". This profession is RESPECTED SUBSTANTIALLY in many parts of the world and escorts are not SCUM in all nations, they are highly valued and appreciated!)