Not So Pleasurable Nights

The problem with backing people into a corner is many times they CAN'T stop defending themselves or their position, even though a part of them may want to. Piling on and adding conflicting posts only make it worse. Don't need a DOZEN people telling you (usually in some insultive manner) to chill out or move on. Sometimes it best to not say anything to a riled up poster and just let him or her calm down on their own. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

WTF? He brought this on to himself...he STARTED this thread..and now he's GONE...good riddance...

He was a pain in the ass back when the "P" was around and he was still a pain in the ass here....plus he's a self hating black man...he needed to be booted out!!!

The problem with backing people into a corner is many times they CAN'T stop defending themselves or their position, even though a part of them may want to. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

If they want to they can. Nobody forced him to post, nobody made him go on, and on, and on. His finger was poised over his self destruct button, nobody pushed it but him.

But yes.........I don't like the piling on that I see coming. Even this could be considered piling on to a banned member who can't defend himself.

self-edit. No point in dwelling on this...

Well said and well deserved vacation...you rock, Soulmanike!!!!!!

Lol. Let the posters without sin and have always been 100% drama free cast the first stone.

Originally Posted by dearhunter
Just so we are clear on this point............I knew that you knew that I knew that you knew that I already knew that I did.

Orignally Posted by ibechill
Ah you dont know jack lol

Ok...just so we are all clear on these points...
DH knew that you knew that he knew that you knew that he already knew that he didn't...And, IBC knows that DH knew all that, but doesn't know jack? Who's jack...and how does he fit into all this? (lol) Just wanted to lighten things up...since this has gone so way south!

This thread has reached a point of ridiculousness...what was the point? When you start a thread and ask a question...be WILLING to accept constructive criticism...and be objective.

At the beginning of this thread, I was a little sympathetic...as no one likes being rejected! However, as this thread unfolded...you turned so hostile that even I started to think she made the right choice.

IBC...she was very polite and honest. Most providers would have just let the appointment day come...give you last minute excuses...or just NCNS'd you.

I've had many many cancellations...is it right to set an appointment and cancel? Sometimes yes...sometimes no...but, as long as we choose to "hobby" we have to put our big girl and big boy hats on, and accept that this is not a perfect world and you can bet that things will go badly on any given day.

The thing that keeps us here...is the awesome reward when things click...and when that MAGIC happens! That, my friend, is what this is all about...not about who did what to whom...or who's the victim and why...or damn the WK's...or who even cares about all that really? Don't we all have a real life? (lol)

epic fucking meltdown

So does this mean I shouldn't pile on by telling you to chill out and move on............maybe this can become a 2fer........... Originally Posted by dearhunter

The problem with backing people into a corner is many times they CAN'T stop defending themselves or their position, even though a part of them may want to. Piling on and adding conflicting posts only make it worse. Don't need a DOZEN people telling you (usually in some insultive manner) to chill out or move on. Sometimes it best to not say anything to a riled up poster and just let him or her calm down on their own. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

Some people see piling on... others see an intervention that could have helped him ... had he not started lashing out at everything around him like a wounded animal...

Jules when are you bringing your sexy ass to Houston? Originally Posted by luxury daphne

ive been thinking about it and now i wanna go more

Lol. Let the posters without sin and have always been 100% drama free cast the first stone. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

That would be me and I ain't throwin' no rocks at nobody...

My momma rocked me in my cradle and she used real rocks...

When I was a little boy my momma said, "Son, don't throw rocks at grandpa... you might miss and hit the house"

People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw rocks... but they should pull the shades down when they are getting their rocks off ...

Luxury...with all due respect to you, but I don't think we should mention what is being posted in the powder room. And, posting what was discussed between two providers is imho...disturbing. Yes, he certainly piled on his crapola...but, some things are best kept between the ladies.

He may have his "shortcomings," but most of us are far from perfect. I know I have many flaws...and thank goodness for the great gents that only see the good parts...whew!!

... some things are best kept between the ladies. Originally Posted by Likinikki

Me...ME... pick Meeeeee...

Thank you so much, Ike. Houston is lucky to have a mod like you. Originally Posted by KaraLynnKelley

AMEN!

Luxury...with all due respect to you, but I don't think we should mention what is being posted in the powder room. And, posting what was discussed between two providers is imho...disturbing. Yes, he certainly piled on his crapola...but, some things are best kept between the ladies.

He may have his "shortcomings," but most of us are far from perfect. I know I have many flaws...and thank goodness for the great gents that only see the good parts...whew!! Originally Posted by Likinikki

All due respect received, there is no thread on him in powder room. Was jerking the monkey's dick, I mean chain. As for the comment I highlighted, have no idea what you are referring to. No BCD info shared by me..EVA

For some reason your name reminded me of syphyliss. I digress.... Originally Posted by ibechill

Yes, yes you do!

[sigh]

No good deed goes unpunished. Try to help a tool....