Please tell providers who don't see minorities to put it in their fucking profiles and be upfront about it in booking so peole don't waste all damn day setting up a fucking useless appointment!

I don't discriminate on race , age or size ! I love them all😘 treat me good and I'll treat you great

A lot of ladies will post in their ads, that their preference is a caucasian male over 35 years old...The guy who said it is because the ladies think that the session will be easier to deal with and shorter had a point ...

HOWEVER I have had older gentlemen come see me who were in their late 50's oe early 60's who were VERY much capable of going 2 rounds...lol

It never pays to ASSUME that just because they are older white males they will finish faster and leave sooner.

As far as the NBA policy, well that is a subject I won't touch on except to say I have seen some wonderful gentlemen who were African American...and they were very polite and very respectful and also very good tippers..

I just wish that everyone could get along and not worry so much as to what color of gentlemen is banging a hottie you would like to see.

M.M. Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

Very True MM and again I have been very candid with a lot of providers over the years and I understand it's a business and the less wear and tear on their bodies- the longer they will last- if a lady let's say averages 7 session a day- would she rather have 7 horse hung guys who are going to pound the shit out of her for 45 mins to a hour or would he rather 7 older men who may last 10 to 15 mins? It's apparent that the latter is the better physical option- if she choose the former she may not be able to provide the next day because she's too sore- knocking out a specific group of people may eliminate some of the problem- but than you are being risky because there are obviously some horse hung white men out there- also there are ladies who are unwilling to see young men of any race because young men are full of testosterone and are typically looking to bang a lady very hard.
However, the majority of AA men on this site is relatively low and none of them I know have any alerts or bad reps- most could easily provide references- but again If a lady I know is NBA I respect her decision and move on- I am surely not going to beg for her to see me. Over the years I have been with 3 NBA ladies- all by "accident" but actually all 3 went through with the session with the agreement that I wouldn't post a review- all 3 ladies gave me great service and there reasoning were financial- one lady who is still very active today- I have seen multiple times over the years and she joked about how some clients -have told her they would no longer see her if she sees AA clients- so to not hurt her business she has an NBA policy, but while those racist hobbyist are playing checkers she's playing chess with those guys by seeing AA on the side LMFAO.

........However, the majority of AA men on this site is relatively low and none of them I know have any alerts or bad reps- most could easily provide references- but again If a lady I know is NBA I respect her decision and move on- I am surely not going to beg for her to see me. Over the years I have been with 3 NBA ladies- all by "accident" but actually all 3 went through with the session with the agreement that I wouldn't post a review- all 3 ladies gave me great service and there reasoning were financial- one lady who is still very active today- I have seen multiple times over the years and she joked about how some clients -have told her they would no longer see her if she sees AA clients- so to not hurt her business she has an NBA policy, but while those racist hobbyist are playing checkers she's playing chess with those guys by seeing AA on the side LMFAO. Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Now see, the part I italicized is what I wonder about after doing my diligence here, because I certainly believe some of these guys who run to the WW newbies are doing this, so-called "advising".....might as well be a pimp, but I'm not gonna blame a lady for understanding her business. There are alot of good points both ways in here....thing is, from the AA point of view, like 'bro and 1911 have said before, the AA's who are here are probably more like the average guy that most providers would see......whatever race or dick size they are LOL. But on the other hand, the % of us here is likely very small so it's the worst of both worlds: not enough of us to get some to change the business model OR change some of these flawed perceptions that have been mentioned herein.

But, how about this to those ladies: there's always BNG! Open up the playbook.......

For example BigLatinMale- if you schedule with a provider and you travel to her incall- knock on the door and she looks at you and says- "oh sorry I don't see Latinos--- I think your first response would be...."you could have told me during the screening or had a disclaimer in your AD so I didn't waste a trip...... Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

I think it would save time for the guys who are frustrated to let the provider know "hey I'm a black man" before setting up a appointment, that would solve the last minute nba cancellations.

I think the name biglatinmale kind of gives him away, WE1911. In essence he IS putting it right up front and center so a lady can choose to see him or not.

I think the name biglatinmale kind of gives him away, WE1911. In essence he IS putting it right up front and center so a lady can choose to see him or not. Originally Posted by threepeckeredbillygoat

You would think- but again never underestimate what a person knows or doesn't know- back in the ASPD I had the same handle- I went to see a lady who had Greek on the menu- she informed me during the session- I won't be able to accommodate you in the greek department. I asked why because we had discussed it- well she said :"I have a size requirement in the greek department and I didn't you would be big- I am like- my handle didn't give it away smh.

I think it would save time for the guys who are frustrated to let the provider know "hey I'm a black man" before setting up a appointment, that would solve the last minute nba cancellations. Originally Posted by biglatinmale

Why should they do that- simply if the ladies have issues seeing Black guys/Asian/ young guys just put a disclaimer. I am not going to pm a lady I want to see and say oh I am a black guy as if that's some kind of handicap or I got to beg them to see me- oh hell no. As a latino - I don't see why you are so passive about the situation as if it's the hobbyist fault- you would have issue if someone stopped you and ask if you have your papers? You don't need to be traveling around as if you got to prove something to someone- again the OP is NOT asking NBA ladies to see him- just tell anyone up front if you don't see a certain race- so if she didn't have a disclaimer- when he sent the request instead of just flat out agreeing to the session- the provider could have said are you AA? Problem solved-no wasted trip and this thread wouldn't exist. But you make it seem that hobbyist every time they pm a lady need to say- oh feel sorry for me I am AA - please have a session with me- if I see No AA I just move to the next AD.

Big Latin Male.

Lol. That's funny.

Why should they do that- simply if the ladies have issues seeing Black guys/Asian/ young guys just put a disclaimer. I am not going to pm a lady I want to see and say oh I am a black guy as if that's some kind of handicap or I got to beg them to see me- oh hell no. As a latino - I don't see why you are so passive about the situation as if it's the hobbyist fault- you would have issue if someone stopped you and ask if you have your papers? You don't need to be traveling around as if you got to prove something to someone- again the OP is NOT asking NBA ladies to see him- just tell anyone up front if you don't see a certain race- so if she didn't have a disclaimer- when he sent the request instead of just flat out agreeing to the session- the provider could have said are you AA? Problem solved-no wasted trip and this thread wouldn't exist. But you make it seem that hobbyist every time they pm a lady need to say- oh feel sorry for me I am AA - please have a session with me- if I see No AA I just move to the next AD. Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

I did not mean any disrespect and understand how you feel, it sucks but its the world we live in, some providers will not admit they are NBA ladies so they wont have to deal with the backlash, I thought my "i'm a black man" suggestion might save some hassle.

I agree with BLM. If you dont see an NBA policy on a provider you want to see would it be easier to just throw it out there and let the provider know? This were there are no issues with showing up at her door and her turning you away. That should definitely stop or limit the "because im black" posts right?

Why should they do that- simply if the ladies have issues seeing Black guys/Asian/ young guys just put a disclaimer. I am not going to pm a lady I want to see and say oh I am a black guy as if that's some kind of handicap or I got to beg them to see me- oh hell no. As a latino - I don't see why you are so passive about the situation as if it's the hobbyist fault- you would have issue if someone stopped you and ask if you have your papers? You don't need to be traveling around as if you got to prove something to someone- again the OP is NOT asking NBA ladies to see him- just tell anyone up front if you don't see a certain race- so if she didn't have a disclaimer- when he sent the request instead of just flat out agreeing to the session- the provider could have said are you AA? Problem solved-no wasted trip and this thread wouldn't exist. But you make it seem that hobbyist every time they pm a lady need to say- oh feel sorry for me I am AA - please have a session with me- if I see No AA I just move to the next AD. Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Do what ever you feel is right for you. The ladies will do what ever they feel is right for them. If somehow you end up at the door and get rejected then oh well. I like to get all my questions and concerns out before I show up. If things don't go the way I wanted I usually am more upset at myself for not doing my research or making sure beforehand. Of course some guys would rather just blame the ladies.

You keep saying that what's his name is mad he didn't know and not mad about but he's upset about both. You don't put the word racist in the thread handle and throw out racist if you aren't upset about both. Him and RC are crying in this whole thread about it. Saying it's 2015 and women should be forced to not have an NBA policy basically.

I'm not even going to bother, Blowjob.

I make a bad habit of getting points because of fucktards like you. Like I've said before, being black has enabled us with the superpower of being able to detect and see through BULLSHIT. Your post reeks of it. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

I can't understand at all why a lady with an NBA policy would worry about you. You don't come off thuggish or overbearing at all. It's not like you ever talk about beating up that pussy or anything.

I guess I'm lucky these ladies don't have a no fucktards policy.

I can't understand at all why a lady with an NBA policy would worry about you. You don't come off thuggish or overbearing at all. It's not like you ever talk about beating up that pussy or anything.

I guess I'm lucky these ladies don't have a no fucktards policy.

Originally Posted by blowmypop23

Yeah. Just ignore the fact that through 50 reviews and a board presence of 6 years and no complaints/alerts against me, but somehow I'm a 'thug' solely because of words on a board. Got it.

You've been on the board a few hours and have one review, but you just know everything.

Since we're playing the character accusation game, how do I not know that you're some reincarnation of a hobbyist that got banned for abusing/robbing/raping a provider. A lil name change, new phone, dyed your hair, and bam, new hobbyist.

You know white cats do bad shit to ladies, too. And then they do the 'transformation', come right back and talk that shit about how 'thuggish' black guys are. Wouldn't be YOU, by chance, would it??

Just saying.

Dude RC you black get over it or go bleach your skin. If they wanna see you they will if someone doesnt they dont. We have all offered ways to help prevent going in and getting turned away.
Jesus just seems like another thing to bitch about and yall feel like we us white folks owe yall something cause your black.

Dude RC you black get over it or go bleach your skin. If they wanna see you they will if someone doesnt they dont. We have all offered ways to help prevent going in and getting turned away.
Jesus just seems like another thing to bitch about and yall feel like we us white folks owe yall something cause your black. Originally Posted by mtubbs90

This is exactly the bullshit we be talking about.

Your level of pissivity has no bearing on me.

LMAO at 'get over it'.

What does 'get over it' mean, btw??