Objectively there are some glaring omissions starting with the girls involved.
Originally Posted by junkweed
Few women working in the Sex industry are emotionally stable and/or strong willed Many lack self confidence. Young girls getting into this business often find their way to Pimps and do not make the break easily.
Similar personality traits can be found in women in abusive relationships.
Even taken advantage of, treated horribly and abused..... people often come to believe not only that they probably deserve it but that their abuser cares for them.
I've heard comments such as
"It's my fault for not knowing"
"If I could stand up for myself I would have told him to leave"
"I didn't want him to get mad at me for saying no"
"I didn't want him to write something mean"
A huge problem that exists in the interactions between guys and ladies here lies in the fact that MOST guys here have blinders on to the fact that MOST ladies here WANT to do what they are doing or ENJOY it in some fashion.
My opinion is that MOST of these ladies would rather do something else but are limited by either need or education and in many cases driven here by desperation.
SO what if some guy stays a little too long or short pays them when they already hate what they are doing. Some kind of expect it.
The ones with Pimps won't complain out loud that their Pimp takes most of what they earn. Or that they got a beating for not earning in some hard case situation.
Many will proclaim love for that person.
You are not going to see a progression of ladies step up and say anything about this any more than some pimps girls are going to suddenly decide to stand up to him,
There is no shortage of guys that do what it is that Trees is accused of doing. One of the ladies was planning on PMing every new lady that has posted in the Welcome Wagon in the last couple of months letting them know what was and was not acceptable behavior and inquire about what guys might be pushing the new ladies too hard for discounts or taking advantage of their time the way Trees was accused of.
I think the list of names she gets back, IF any come back to her, will be surprisingly long.
I've heard the same thing about other guys here, You can easily go through the list of guys writing reviews and probably guess.
How many people here dislike the notion of Pimps? How do you think a Pimp gets his hands on a lot of girls? Part of their game is pointing out that he is not going to let her get taken advantage of, that HE will make sure she is paid what she is worth, that he will make sure her time is respected....
There is no way anyone will ever get a grip on it all..... But when the person that is accused of doing it is a MOD, someone charged to an extent for looking out for the community, well.... it shouldn't get swept under the rug. Ladies should know that at least THOSE guys will treat them fairly..... We all should be able to know that,
This story is known to a lot of guys out there..... Some that you recognize and put a lot of credit in what they are saying. Ladies as well...... A lot of strong willed members with the ability to speak up and say they know this to be true as well could step up and help validate it.
But you are not going to see a group of the ladies that were wronged doing so. They are simply glad he is not a mod any more and want to move on.
If a MOD pulls shit like what Trees is accused of doing so and no one gives a fuck what kind of expectation are you setting for your future Mods?