Cathrine - Vi - Valerie... I got outted :( now what do I do?

VI,

Wny haven't you removed identifying pics? If your going to continue, why not delete this profile, create a new one without any pics that can ID you and with new contact info?


Then play "wuddent me". What ever anyone says just say, "wuddent me". You're out there for some but you could still benefit from becoming less visible.


Seems at this point you're just asking for more problems.

To 90% of the posters on this threAD:




I can get you the best price. No joke. I know the architect. He's trying to retire and lost all his money in oil. True story. Originally Posted by THN

I don't post very often cause the drama just goes on forever but I believe that THN has the best post on this entire Thread. Good job THN!

Well, I will say this for you; you're pretty on the outside.



I have to agree. Like marijuana in the 60's, the activities in the Hobby still relegate us to the fringes of society like so many dysfunctional children. And apparently, like children, some of us are obviously incapable of accepting human failings and simply offering support. smh Originally Posted by daty/o

I don't care about your opinion anyways & 2nd this girl must have fell out of a tree because she set her ass up for failure & she is still zooming down failure lane... This isn't common sense

Wishing the best for you

I don't care about your opinion anyways & 2nd this girl must have fell out of a tree because she set her ass up for failure & she is still zooming down failure lane... This isn't common sense Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

I'm crushed.

And it's "must have fallen"

Sorry this happened to you.

It takes a real man to tell the truth when a hooktard did it to herself I applaud him for holding his nutts & speaking the truth... Not many men can do this on eccie Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

No, it really doesn't. It's as much a pussy move as the white knights that defend every girl, right or wrong, because they have to suck up to any woman just to get attention.

Being a dick on an anonymous internet forum is about as far from being a man as I can imagine.

That truly sucks. I'm sorry to hear about it. It's at times like these you will find out who your true friends are in the civvy world. Your real friends will be cool with you no matter what.

so very sorry this happened. i too agree with tin mans approach... but will also add this..
a. those that love you, maybe mad or hurt right now. but keep in mind. its temporary.
and it will pass. your parents love you, and while they may not truely understand and maybe mad and say mean things.. they will always love you.
b. the co is really your only big issue. how he plays it out.. will have longer impacts.
c. please get your real name off of here.. and although you are a very pretty lady, blue the face pics.. "c" will follow you for life.. if you dont and will also help LE as well..

take care my friend, we've never seen each other... but you dont really have to see each other just to be friends.

Don't know what church you go to but I did not think excommunication was used often at all anymore unless you killed some one. Originally Posted by swather

Yea, I call BS on excommunication too. She has a post where she indicates she is Catholic. It does not work that way.

I won't disclose the full nature of my relationship with VI. I've known her for over two years. From the first occasion we met, I knew fully what I was getting into. I also decided to accept whatever followed as simply part of what it means to know each other through here. In other words, I would accept VI for who she is--the good and the bad, and everything in between. Because that's exactly what she did for me.

To any friends or family who might be reading this: VI has become one of a very few reasons why I'm still alive today. I've lived a pretty straight-laced and honorable life--both in and out of the military, but ultimately alone. Today I remain a high performer at work, and in my field--but that is the *only* thing I have going well for me in life. And that kind of isolation is crushing. Vi's kindness showed me that not all people are completely heartless. I've told her this on a couple of occasions--usually when I sense she's had a bad day or week.

To anyone reading this, ready to throw judgment, I hope to God that you would be lucky enough to have someone like that on your side when the world is at it's darkest and you're ready to check out. Consider that when you meet someone here, you're asking that this person--another human being--also forgive or overlook your obvious flaws. I have to believe this needs to go in all directions, and maybe teach us a great deal about how we treat people in and out of this hobby.

I won't disclose the full nature of my relationship with VI. I've known her for over two years. From the first occasion we met, I knew fully what I was getting into. I also decided to accept whatever followed as simply part of what it means to know each other through here. In other words, I would accept VI for who she is--the good and the bad, and everything in between. Because that's exactly what she did for me.

To any friends or family who might be reading this: VI has become one of a very few reasons why I'm still alive today. I've lived a pretty straight-laced and honorable life--both in and out of the military, but ultimately alone. Today I remain a high performer at work, and in my field--but that is the *only* thing I have going well for me in life. And that kind of isolation is crushing. Vi's kindness showed me that not all people are completely heartless. I've told her this on a couple of occasions--usually when I sense she's had a bad day or week.

To anyone reading this, ready to throw judgment, I hope to God that you would be lucky enough to have someone like that on your side when the world is at it's darkest and you're ready to check out. Consider that when you meet someone here, you're asking that this person--another human being--also forgive or overlook your obvious flaws. I have to believe this needs to go in all directions, and maybe teach us a great deal about how we treat people in and out of this hobby. Originally Posted by BluePen

I suggest you propose marriage asap, it sounds like you found your soul mate. Good luck buddy

I suggest you propose marriage asap, it sounds like you found your soul mate. Good luck buddy Originally Posted by biglatinmale

LOL. I'm officially your new fan.

:-)

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1615980

After 9 pages, do we know who outted her? what is his handle?
or is this whole thread made up to draw attention? threAD
Why does VI keep adding to this thread if she wanted this to go away?
why even post it in coed with her real name as the title, so it can be searchable? then she starts ANOTHER threAD in coed....

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1619471

If this is all true, why hasn't she even tried to tell other providers how to protect themselves from anything like this, happening to them. How can he know more about her, then she knows about him? If they were in court, she should know all his stuff. They had a date, she ran into him at church, blah blah blah...... i run into providers at walmart all the time, still i don't know all their RW info or who her RW family is.

I have to give her credit, she is not afraid to go outside the box to get attention.

CG

WTF the girl is bsc and outed her self for some reason we dont know yet, but i am sure we will find out soon, this has to be a crazy stunt she is pulling her self