I went back like 5 pages and all I saw was "Kitty, Kitty, Kitty" ... I clicked on a few of the links and all I can say is wow.
I have never in all my years met someone who was their worst enemy more then this woman. I would be surprised if she lives another 10 years with the amount of drama and stress she allows in her life. I have to have read at least 20 of her sob stories through out the years and those were all threads I just happened to stumble upon, so I have to assume if I went digging I'd find another 20 more sob stories.
My advice for her is the same it was 5 years ago .... pack a bag and enter treatment. She needs to be in a program where she is able to restart her life. Living in treatment won't be any worse then the hell she already lives day-to-day.
Kitty is not living, she just happens to be alive.
Skittlez is one of my favorite hobbyists on the Board, but he done fucked up. Sometimes you gotta know when to stfu. I can't really say more than that, however. Sorry.