what do u do if

If a hobbyist is supposed to b helping u get verified and they didn't pay u for your services says he forgot and said he will pay the next day and doesn't respond back to u the next day and its been a week and the day they say they will bring it to u they don't answer back again ?

I am so sorry that happened.....always get donation before they leave or preferably when they arrive}....sometimes you just have to chalk it up to a lesson learned not to do again!

I said i was not going to mention his handle if he took care of it I'm trying to b patient

You were screwed from the start.... you got played most likely.... sorry for your misfortune....

throw him under the bus and move on.....

Never do anything with out the donation first sweetie, there's nothing you can do but like they say chalk it up as a loss. But I would defiantly throw his ass far under the bus so he learns his lesson and he doesn't do it again to someone else

I am so sorry that happened.....always get donation before they leave or preferably when they arrive}....sometimes you just have to chalk it up to a lesson learned not to do again! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Never do anything with out the donation first sweetie, there's nothing you can do but like they say chalk it up as a loss. But I would defiantly throw his ass far under the bus so he learns his lesson and he doesn't do it again to someone else Originally Posted by shayla84

Glad I know who not to schedule with ! I never pay up front , never ripped anyone off . Have been ripped off twice paying first . Why should I trust you ?
You're looking to make money , the risk is yours . I don't pay till the pizza has been delivered !

Glad I know who not to schedule with ! I never pay up front , never ripped anyone off . Have been ripped off twice paying first . Why should I trust you ?
You're looking to make money , the risk is yours . I don't pay till the pizza has been delivered ! Originally Posted by rockerrick

I don't eat Green Eggs and Ham and I don't Pay Up Front! PERIOD! I also don't exchange favors for sessions or reviews!

Get this guy's handle out there so he doesn't take advantage of another new provider. You are not throwing him under the bus; rather you are seeing to it that he suffers the consequences of his own actions.

That is fine, the people I have seen I have been given after and before, but as for her I was letting her know that she is gonna have to take it as a loss. I am not in the business to give anything away free and it was wrong that it happened to her. I was trying to give the best advice I could. If you didnt like the response that I gave her that is fine sweetie, but I wasnt giving the advice to you

I've been hobbying for a only a few months, but is there some sort of general stance on paying before or after, or maybe it's different from girl to girl. So far about half the time I've paid up front and the other half forgot and dropped it off on a table before I left. Haven't had any issues either way.

I would list his handle, chances are he has done it before to other ladies. It would be nice to know his handle so we know WHO not to see.

I've been in the business for ten years and fortunately I have only been ripped off four times in the whole ten years. I never ask for money up front....unless the client is young (age 20-25). About eight years ago a client came in from craigslist and after the session he said he forgot his wallet and had to go to an ATM. Guess what? He never came back to pay me. I was SO MAD!!!! I put his name and phone number on CL under "men seeking men" saying, "My name is ????? and I'm looking for some man-on-man action." Karma is a bitch.

The hobby is tough when you're new and unfamiliar with the rules and etiquette of what we do.. I'm sorry this happened to you.

he ripped you off. I am very sorry. He would have paid that day if he was going to, and he is just "stringing you along." chalk it up to experience. very sorry this happened to you.

Best,
Ck

Sorry you had a bad experience.