I hate making a post like this but I had someone sending me angry messages yesterday, so I think I have to address the issue.
My circumstances in my life have changed and my availability is much more limited than it was before. I have had my availability posted on my showcase, in my ads and on my site, as it always has been, but it doesn't really matter cause 99% of guys just won't read and every guy thinks he is an exception. Every guy, seriously.
Many women here, and probably the majority are not available full time. And if you read in Brooke's thread, she describes some of the arrangements that have to made prior to making an appointment happen. Many ladies have kids, jobs, school, etc and must make arrangements.
https://eccie.net/showpost.php?p=1061699986&postcount=1
Simply put, SOME OF US ARE JUST NOT AVAILABLE LAST MINUTE.
I have always been low volume, and I have always specialized in multi-hour appointments (which I why I require planning ahead). You can understand why I am low volume when I make appointments that last for several hours. I do not do quick visits. So if I am booked for several hours, I cannot respond to your request to see me ASAP nor would I care to disturb the gentlemen who has already arranged his multi-hour visit long in advance. And I am sure he doesn't care for it either.
Basically, you are being extremely rude to me and the to gentleman who is already here.
This happened yesterday. I had someone with me for two hours. When I was done I had angry messages from someone else who continues to repeatedly message me for late evening appointments (which I don't do) and also on short notice (which I also don't do) and he is most often messaging me when I am already occupied.
My availability has been posted and I think it's quite rude for someone to constantly expect me to alter my life on short notice and stop what I am doing to immediately attend their needs or else they will send me angry messages because they expect to be the exception, and they want to be the exception RIGHT NOW. Honestly I find it a bit disturbing that someone reacts this way. It's a great way to get blocked.
I frankly have no desire to meet with someone who is this high maintenance and full of themselves. There are other ladies who accommodate short notice and late nights. And there are ladies who actually specialize in short notice and late nights.
I am not one of them.