So porn and the hobby have a connection at some point, right!
My first experience with porn was way back when I was a teen at a party we got into the hosts parents collection and watched for hours, coed group.
As a young man I explored porn. Back then there was no internet porn so you had to go to your local video store. I was very curious and watched to learn.
Since I started Hobbying porn is of little to no interest.
I do feel that it has influenced the way I hobby, in my selection and how I experience my play. For me when I play with a young lady younger then half my age I consider it porn star play, when I see a lady closer to what would actually be a GF it is GFE play, and can be PSE by a GFE!
Porn I would think influences providers and hobbyists as there is a no shame or judgment involved during play, a way for some to experiment and explore.
My first RW GF after my first stay in the hobby was interesting as the activities I so desired in the hobby were not what I wanted in a relationship. My first date with my GF after we had sex for the first time she was like " wow you can really snuggle (fuck)", we made luv for hours, but I was into just that and had no desire to what I have done in the hobby. She was submissive and told me I could do what ever I wanted, but I just never wanted to act on that.
Do you find your real world sex is different then hobby sex? I think both have something that either does not have, and that is the reason it is so different to me.
I can imagine some that just want to get some snatch on the side are just looking for that.
So does porn influence how you hobby, PSE and GFE? With all the stuff we see as young people, anal sex, facials, girl on girl, multi lady play, Dom and sub play and a long list of roll playing and fantasy/ fetish. Some of what porn is now days does not interest me, but mostly what I was first exposed to does. Can't stand the whole spitting and slapping thing.
Ladies how does porn influence the way you provide? Do young ladies getting into providing watch and learn from porn as they are young with little experience!
IB
- Iron Butterfly
- 12-02-2015, 05:02 AM
- knotty man
- 12-02-2015, 06:35 AM
I got a job as a pizza delivery boy because of porn.
Is that a mushroom in your pocket or are you just happy to see me ?
Is that a mushroom in your pocket or are you just happy to see me ?
- Toyz
- 12-02-2015, 06:42 AM
It gives me something to do with my hands on the evenings that I don't have company....
- RetiredNinja
- 12-02-2015, 07:20 AM
My first porn was finding a bunch of Oui magazines at a construction site. It was quite the eye opener.
I remember late at night messing with the vertical and horizontal hold on the TV to try and catch a glimpse of something on the first cable pay channels. It's entirely possible I masturbated to an elbow, but it looked close enough to a boob to me.
Once I turned 18 I went to the one video store in town which was also the music store where my band practiced so I knew everyone. I worked up the nerve to go behind the curtain and rented Devil in Miss Jones and Behind the Green Door. I'll always remember that because I got to the counter and the owner quizzed me about being 18, so I told him I was the same age as his son. He just shook his head.
They don't make porn like that anymore, but thanks to the internet there's still plenty of it out there to be found. Yeah, it's pretty cheesy stuff, but older stuff had some good stories and so much bush...
I don't really watch much porn now as a sexual thing, I mostly just look for weird shit and laugh my ass off at it.
I would say that porn influenced my civilian sex life, but by the time I started hobbying there wasn't really anything I wanted to do that I hadn't already.
The actual sex with a provider versus a civilian isn't so different for me. The big difference is being on the clock versus having plenty of time to spread things out. As I get older time limits work against me and I miss the days of just snuggling on the couch and occasionally hitting pause on whatever we're watching to fuck again. On the other hand, there's a thrill in meeting a provider that would be out of my league in real life for the first time, saying hi, going straight to fucking, then leaving, maybe to never see that lady again. It's certainly a lot less work than most of my civilian experiences.
I remember late at night messing with the vertical and horizontal hold on the TV to try and catch a glimpse of something on the first cable pay channels. It's entirely possible I masturbated to an elbow, but it looked close enough to a boob to me.
Once I turned 18 I went to the one video store in town which was also the music store where my band practiced so I knew everyone. I worked up the nerve to go behind the curtain and rented Devil in Miss Jones and Behind the Green Door. I'll always remember that because I got to the counter and the owner quizzed me about being 18, so I told him I was the same age as his son. He just shook his head.
They don't make porn like that anymore, but thanks to the internet there's still plenty of it out there to be found. Yeah, it's pretty cheesy stuff, but older stuff had some good stories and so much bush...
I don't really watch much porn now as a sexual thing, I mostly just look for weird shit and laugh my ass off at it.
I would say that porn influenced my civilian sex life, but by the time I started hobbying there wasn't really anything I wanted to do that I hadn't already.
The actual sex with a provider versus a civilian isn't so different for me. The big difference is being on the clock versus having plenty of time to spread things out. As I get older time limits work against me and I miss the days of just snuggling on the couch and occasionally hitting pause on whatever we're watching to fuck again. On the other hand, there's a thrill in meeting a provider that would be out of my league in real life for the first time, saying hi, going straight to fucking, then leaving, maybe to never see that lady again. It's certainly a lot less work than most of my civilian experiences.