Guys do you do this and ladies does it bother you?

Lets say you met a provider and had a fabulous time with her and plan to see her again you are not sure when maybe within the week or month or even within the year you do not know you just know you had fun and are looking forward to a repeat.

If you are remembering the fun time do you and wanna reach out and tell her do you?


a.) call her anyway to tell her...

b.) text her to say hi sexy thinking about u

c.) email her to let her know you where thinking about her

d.) keep your thoughts to yourself to avoid looking like a stalker and just wait to contact her when you are ready to schedule another fun time...

e.) Even if I had a blast I am a one time rider and NEVER see a provider twice I am here for the variety!

Ladies, how does this make you feel?

Do you like getting phonecalls, texts or emails? Or would you prefer please just contact me when you are ready to schedule.

I will tell you why I am posting this later.......or maybe not..lol.

Kisses,
Cercy
I like it when a guy texts or send me a pm to let me know he had a good time and looking forwarding to visiting me again, its gives me the warm and fuzzy feeling.
simpleton's Avatar
I would maybe send a pm letting her know how I felt but most likely would just tell her the next time I schedule an apt. Anything other than that is wasting her time.
Depends on their threAD
texasjohn1965's Avatar
I will usually send a "thank you" text after the session. The next contact would be to schedule another session. If I have seen the provider on a regular basis, and develop a connection, then an occassional text is not out of the question.
boardman's Avatar
Usually a simple PM to say I had a good time.
A PM or email is nice, but I don't save numbers so I'd probably wonder all day who texted me ???
RALPHEY BOY's Avatar
I send an email or PM telling her how much I look forward to seeing her again,..

its the small things like this that keep her/us happy..
SASpurfan's Avatar
Cercy -

I think you know how I will respond to your question -

c.) email her to let her know you where thinking about her


SAS
If I enjoyed my time with her and plan to see her again, I will contact her again just to say I had a great time and maybe flirt a little. Its not something I frequently do though, after all I hobby for variety in my life, not a relationship.
OK I got the wrong idea about the question.

I was with this gorgeous Nigerian girl before christmas, a 19 yr old model figure, we had been in contact for months and finally got into bed.

Sucked her nipples, sucked her clit, she clasped my head, I entered her and pleasured her.

After a bit, I was tired, I deflated a bit, so I withdrew, had a couple minutes rest, then tried to start myself by hand.

When she saw what I was doing she went ballistic, got very offended, said I should ask her permission, everything went downhill. No more fun that day.

She was of course being ridiculous, but then maybe I was too, I should have communicated with her and asked her to help me. But a 55 yr old man gets a little nervous with a 19 yr old girl.

Will be seeing her again soon. I think the lesson I learnt is to trust her and not be so nervous.

Does that answer the question?

She is not an escort, she is a sugarbabe. She was also stressed from too much shitty work.
Geritol's Avatar
I had a visit with a provider recently and absolutely intend on seeing her again. I just don't want to seem like a stalker. After the positive review, I have had no other contact.

G
Maybe its just me, but if any woman takes an "I had a great time the other day! You're a very sexy woman." text as stalking, she's got some issues. I'm not saying that texts like that can't lead to stalking, but they're a looooong way away from hiding in the bushes outside her house.
Htowner's Avatar
I usually need some time to recover from trying to get hold of them the first time.
I did that with a regular of mine, I texted her to tell her I had a great time and missed her but evrerytime she took that as a lets meet. I don't have too many regulars, I like variety