Dilemma

So here is the deal. I travel to Dallas in a couple weeks and want to make the most of my trip. I am there at least three nights and plan on hobbying every night. To increase the odds of success, I've been trying to prescreen with some local ladies. Unfortunately, my preferred411 account isn't good enough for many because I don't have any recent references. I'm not really a fan of handing my personal info out, so I either have to go with newbie friendly providers or not hobby? Isn't there a better way? Is there another service that can be used other than p411 or another trusted person that can verify me? Handing my info out to multiple people is not high on my list.

Being a Dallas provider myself I seem to remember that there are quite a few local ladies who list themselves as being 'newbie friendly'. Perhaps the best line of action would be to schedule your initial meeting with one of them and use her as a more recent 'okay' to visit with others?

Well, you could see someone where you live and get a recent reference or you could just stick with newbie friendly providers when you are in Dallas so you have recent references the next time you visit or you could try sending a pm to whomever you want to see and ask what they would need to feel secure in having you visit. The latter worked well for me without personal info or p411.

Is there another service that can be used other than p411 Originally Posted by iifnmii

After four years in this world (entirely in Dallas), I feel confident in telling you that P411 is the undisputed leader in screening services in Dallas. In fact, I've never used another service.

The second most common screening method is asking for provider references.

Way down the list are other methods of screening which I won't list here for safety purposes. You can write to the ladies you're interested in and ask what they would like in the way of screening.

But really with the HUGE number of ladies available in Dallas you should be able to find exactly the type you want even limiting your search to those of us who accept P411 without any provider references. (i.e. "Newbie Friendly".)

You've already got P411 so unless you're really lusting after some particular lady who won't accept that alone, contacting newbie-friendly ladies is the path of least resistance.

I think wynter is right.See one newbie friendly the 1st night.Get her okay and then schedule whith whoever else you like after that.

I'll figure something out. Fortunately, some ladies are comfortable seeing me I am surprised however, that many providers are unresponsive. No reply = you don't pass my screening I suppose?

If you bring me a Boston Red Sox Hat...I will see you

Promise to pack me in your suitcase on your way back and we are cool

What if he's a Yankees fan and just lives in Boston?

Awww thanks Berkleigh, I'll keep that in mind

Trust me though, you dont want to be in Boston this time a year. It's freezing and snowy!!

"Promise to pack me in your suitcase on your way back and we are cool "
Pack her in your suitcase, she packs you in her trunk. . . sounds like a sweet deal to me!


Regards.

Awww thanks Berkleigh, I'll keep that in mind

Trust me though, you dont want to be in Boston this time a year. It's freezing and snowy!! Originally Posted by iifnmii

I was in Boston on July4th one year and it was freezing. If I remember correctly it might have snowed too.

I'll figure something out. Fortunately, some ladies are comfortable seeing me I am surprised however, that many providers are unresponsive. No reply = you don't pass my screening I suppose? Originally Posted by iifnmii

No reply can mean many things. It can mean the lady is booked, unavailable at the time, out of town, on vacation. Some ladies won't respond to an appointment request if they cannot meet at the requested time (I generally answer with alternatives). Some ladies may not have access to their email accounts for whatever reason at any given point in time.

There are plenty of us that will work for you, you just sometimes have to look a little harder