Have times changed regarding bbbj and the finish?

Perhaps it is just my experience but it seems when I started in the hobby years ago most of the ladies would finish with a swallow. Over the last couple years that seems to have changed and most ladies do not. The reason I ask is that oral is the main reason I hobby as like many it's not done at home and every man has needs

What I want to know persuant to cim is...
A. Ladies what is the difference between a cock in your mouth to the hilt at cum time versus spurting into your open mouth?


Have to admit I have not indulged in the latter and even look away as I come, like Im doing something DIRTY.

B.Gentlemen do you throw your head back in ectasy or look directly at her as you O?


Mmmmmm......I need a sloppy passionate blowjob

that's only an occasional finish for me, so I haven't studied past vs. present.. I have noticed quite a few that say "no CIM" however..

I've never been a swallower. With the rise in BB these days.. I've no intentions of becoming one either.

just find the ones who will do it .. I don't

Do what?

MrDunbar, since i dont keep stats on all providers here in dallas, i can only say that for the ones i've consulted w/ over the years, about 70% are swallowers (cos i research them).
some will spit.
some will back off at cumpletion time and finish w/ her hands.
i prefer that she keep lil delites inside til cumpletion.
i dont care if she swallows or spits.
i rarely jackoff into a provider's mouth (like in most porn). if i do this, she usually is sucking on lil delite's crown and playing w/ the balls for addtl stimulation.

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B.Gentlemen do you throw your head back in ectasy or look directly at her as you O?

Mmmmmm......I need a sloppy passionate blowjob Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

for me, it depends on the provider, her skills, and other factors.

generally, my eyes are open. sometimes, i'm looking at her as she cumpletes her work. sometimes, i'm just looking off into space (ceiling or wall) as she transports me to another universe. sometimes, my eyes are open, but i'm letting out loud gutteral sounds cos she is so suckingly delitefully exquisite!!!

sometimes, my eyes are closed cos i am focusing on the feelings and not the provider or the place.

and rarely, my eyes are open and looking at my watch to find out how much longer i have to endure her way less than deliteful felatio (yes, i have stuck it out to the end a few times).

I couldn't tell what is happening at the climax as I turn into a Pentacostal. My eyes are rolled back in my head, my fingers and toes are curled, my body is spasming & I'm speaking in tongues.

To be honest once i am done, it is the property of the provider and she can do whatever she wants with it. LOL swallow or spit it out, no matter to me.

I've been told that I have a deep growl when I'm finishing a huge n greatest (trump speak) load in my cover in her pussy by the awesome lady I'm with.

Not a big fan of cim. That was a real world thing before I got old n ugly n lazy. Just tell a rw lady you can't cum like that and omg hang on

I've been told that I have a deep growl when I'm finishing a huge n greatest (trump speak) load in my cover in her pussy by the awesome lady I'm with.

Not a big fan of cim. That was a real world thing before I got old n ugly n lazy. Just tell a rw lady you can't cum like that and omg hang on

I'm old af and I never met a spitter until I was 26. If a woman can look me in the eye and swallow it melts my heart of coal every time. My experience with millennials is they are much less likely to swallow or even allow CIM. As long as they don't think it's gross for a man to cum it's usually just fine. I always tell them
"You know you mom and grandmother were much freakier than you". That never fails to get some sort of response.

I couldn't tell what is happening at the climax as I turn into a Pentacostal. My eyes are rolled back in my head, my fingers and toes are curled, my body is spasming & I'm speaking in tongues. Originally Posted by Billogoods

Yeah, I've had a few where I didn't even know whether it was still in her mouth and couldn't have cared less. I just make sure they know what's about to happen, and, as long as the sensation remains pleasurable or becomes moreso, I couldn't care less. The best orgasm I ever had was with a woman named Bettina; I had to grab a pillow and put it over my face to stifle the noise.

But, back to the topic: I'm so old I remember when CIM/swallowing was a rarity, and a pretty, hot young half-Thai, half-Czech escort in Dallas made quite a name for herself as being among the very few who did.

Spit vs. swallow, yes, I think it's changed a bit and trended more to the spit end of the spectrum, especially in civilian gals. I have no explanation for why that is.

CIM/uncovered vs. no CIM or covered, I've never seen a Civil suggest covered or non CIM. Hobby, there had been a huge shift over the past 30-35 years. All rested to the rise of more setoous STD's I would think. But when I started 40 years ago, every gal in the business swallowed/CIM/NQNSTC.

But when I started 40 years ago, every gal in the business swallowed/CIM/NQNSTC. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

I should have been clearer: I got my start in the late 90s, when the fear of AIDS was still running high. BBBJs were common, CBJs probably moreso than now, but CIM was a rarity. At least among those women I saw.