Hey guys..."NOW" ISN'T An Actual TIME...

I have YET to see a clock that has "now" listed as a time.

So please remember that when a lady asks you "What time do you want to meet up sugar?" Please don't say "now".

To me, now means you are less than 5-10min away or already parked at my place (which is kinda creepy and disturbing).

It also means to most ladies that you intentionally ignored their "No Last Minute appointments" rule/request. And yes, many actually have it posted in this ads...GO FIGURE!

I am sharing this nugget of information with you to benefit YOU and impress upon you the fact that most of us providers find that using the word "now" a really big pet peeve.

And that reminds me...from here forward anyone who asks if I'm "free" is going to receive the response "no, I'm expensive."

Be safe, play hard and have a wonderful day everyone!
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The problem is some girls want an exact time when asked if tbey are available but the fact is with Houston traffic and girls not wamting to give a location without a confirmed time it is really hard to guess a time you can be there. Not all girls operate like this but the majority do. My schedule rarely affords me free time and sometimes its last minute when I do get a chance to play.
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Another "problem" is ....

... some providers will respond "Now"....

... when one asks when they are available!

"Beam me over Scotty" ... to the other side of the Houston metro!

And Courtney ... PLEASE don't "assume" my comment is disrespectful!

It's not. Communication is a 2-way street.
I have YET to see a clock that has "now" listed as a time.

So please remember that when a lady asks you "What time do you want to meet up sugar?" Please don't say "now".

To me, now means you are less than 5-10min away or already parked at my place (which is kinda creepy and disturbing).

It also means to most ladies that you intentionally ignored their "No Last Minute appointments" rule/request. And yes, many actually have it posted in this ads...GO FIGURE!

I am sharing this nugget of information with you to benefit YOU and impress upon you the fact that most of us providers find that using the word "now" a really big pet peeve.

And that reminds me...from here forward anyone who asks if I'm "free" is going to receive the response "no, I'm expensive."

Be safe, play hard and have a wonderful day everyone! Originally Posted by CourtneySt.Clair
Lmao!!!!! You're awesome.
Some Ladies have private incall and are able (and sometimes prefer) last minute appointments. Some cannot accommodate appointments with less than 24 hours notice. And then some, like myself, would rather not plan too far ahead and require no less than one hour of notice.

Just like age, race, and body type preferences, there is always the "Time constraint" factor.

I think it just comes down to the (potential) client taking the time to read and understand the ad and/or showcase of the provider he is interested in seeing. Then, if her availability/requirements suit his needs, proceed with contacting and scheduling.
So my watch has "nowish" not now on it. Nowish is a complex arithmetic problem. Current time + 10 minutes to pee and wrap up work + commute time to your location. If the commute time is available nowish can be converted to a time on anyone's watch. So if I send a provider a note that I want to meet "nowish", they give me the address or general location (lets say it is noon and their incall is 20 minutes away) I can respond that I would like an appointment at 12:30. Hope this helps...haha
^^ You just had to get technical. Lol
Lol Thanks Alyssa! I try
"What time do you want to meet up for sex?"
Originally Posted by CourtneySt.Clair
This might help. "Now" is not an option and not on the clock!
When is a good time for sex?


Put this in your ad. Lol
This might help. "Now" is not an option and not on the clock!
When is a good time for sex?


Put this in your ad. Lol Originally Posted by Seeking ~P
Genious...you can request a session by this clock....let me see...i would like a 6:15 today...haha
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I find “now” to be rude.

Most of us aren’t just sitting around twiddling our thumbs waiting on an appointment. We too have lives. Even IF I’m just sitting around watching YouTube videos, the fact that you expect me to stop what I’m doing to entertain you that very minute is rude. I understand people have hectic schedules and last minute appointments may be your only option but there is way to go about it.

I find to have this issue more with my regular clients. Since I don’t have to screen them and I tend to host in the same area all the time they think it’s cool. I try not to get annoyed and explain to them I prefer more notice. I try to be flexible and understanding but it is still a pet peeve of mine. I prefer at least an hr notice but the more the better. This way I can plan my day and a lot some time for myself to do whatever it is I need to do. I know I’m “on call” but this isn’t a “walk ins welcome business” it’s by appointment.

I agree with KSBBW everyone is different so reading the ad and showcase to understand what the provider your interested in prefers is best. Communication is key
This might help. "Now" is not an option and not on the clock!
When is a good time for sex?


Put this in your ad. Lol Originally Posted by Seeking ~P
I would...but as I am predominantly an oral specialist it doesn't really fit...
I find “now” to be rude.

Most of us aren’t just sitting around twiddling our thumbs waiting on an appointment. We too have lives. Even IF I’m just sitting around watching YouTube videos, the fact that you expect me to stop what I’m doing to entertain you that very minute is rude. I understand people have hectic schedules and last minute appointments may be your only option but there is way to go about it.

I find to have this issue more with my regular clients. Since I don’t have to screen them and I tend to host in the same area all the time they think it’s cool. I try not to get annoyed and explain to them I prefer more notice. I try to be flexible and understanding but it is still a pet peeve of mine. I prefer at least an hr notice but the more the better. This way I can plan my day and a lot some time for myself to do whatever it is I need to do. I know I’m “on call” but this isn’t a “walk ins welcome business” it’s by appointment.

I agree with KSBBW everyone is different so reading the ad and showcase to understand what the provider your interested in prefers is best. Communication is key Originally Posted by misslilly
EXACTLY! 100% SPOT ON! I you Misslilly
I would...but as I am predominantly an oral specialist it doesn't really fit... Originally Posted by CourtneySt.Clair
Just was an idea
I find “now” to be rude.

Most of us aren’t just sitting around twiddling our thumbs waiting on an appointment. We too have lives. Even IF I’m just sitting around watching YouTube videos, the fact that you expect me to stop what I’m doing to entertain you that very minute is rude. I understand people have hectic schedules and last minute appointments may be your only option but there is way to go about it.

I find to have this issue more with my regular clients. Since I don’t have to screen them and I tend to host in the same area all the time they think it’s cool. I try not to get annoyed and explain to them I prefer more notice. I try to be flexible and understanding but it is still a pet peeve of mine. I prefer at least an hr notice but the more the better. This way I can plan my day and a lot some time for myself to do whatever it is I need to do. I know I’m “on call” but this isn’t a “walk ins welcome business” it’s by appointment.

I agree with KSBBW everyone is different so reading the ad and showcase to understand what the provider your interested in prefers is best. Communication is key Originally Posted by misslilly
AGREED!