Thoughts

Im 29 and just a guy. I have a normal girl and she is great. but am always feel like I did somthing wrong after we are done. ,Is that normal? I would hate to think that I was asking a lady to do somthing she didnt wnt to,

I'm just curious, do you come from a highly religious background where you were taught sex is wrong/immoral/ a sin?

No not at all. I'm just thinking of the girls. I'm just wondering what everyone else thinks?

If she is cumming then it's all good.

If she is cumming then it's all good. Originally Posted by burkalini

yep

I get the same thing. Its legit, we're engaged. She definitely cums and I don't force any activities on her that she doesn't want to do. However, I still have this feeling of guilt as soon as I cum. Its been that way all my life and that was way before I started to hobby (I'm 50).
Strangely, that might be part of why I enjoy the hobby. I know what the provider will do. I know she's there willingly and somehow that just lets me relax.

And to whoever asked, I was raised Catholic, but I don't think the guilt is tied to that.