Providers Hobbyers and SOs

I was looking at a providers web page and saw pics of her and her boyfriend having fun and I got curious.


Im going to assume that hobbyers dont tell their SOs about their "hobby"

But what do you providers do when you are in a relationship. Does your SO know. if so are there rules.

Does he say Im ok with it as long as you______

Or what if you are about to begin a relationship with a civilian how does that work.

I'm so curious about this how does it work out for ya'll.