... SOME PROVIDERS THAT DON'T DO GREEK REGULARLY WILL USE A 'butt plug' FOR AN HOUR OR TWO BEFORE A SESSION IF THEY KNOW IT WILL INVOLVE GREEK. ...
Originally Posted by ManSlut
You're kidding, right? You're suggesting to someone who isn't used to something IN her bottom to have something hard and plastic in there for HOURS and THEN have someone mess around and try to stick something else in there? A butt plug is NOTHING like a tampon (and I know that she mentioned it first but she's asking for advice).
It's a rare man that I play with that can handle a lot of ass action (on him for those who are skimming this) for an extended period of time. They cannot take it.
Jesus. Don't listen to that advice. And don't use anal eze (sp) or whatever numbing cream is out there. Feeling pain keeps you from harming yourself.
You do NOT wish to cause harm to your body in any way.
Alright. My advice and you don't have to listen to me, either.
Why don't you find yourself a caring, empathetic and experienced lover to explore with you this activity?
It's a lot better to have a man who is intuitive to help you and ease you into a place where you might really like it.
If you're just doing this for business, then don't.
If you like anal play, and many people do, then go slow. Appreciate the process. Learn the different and intense feelings.
And share this with someone.
I cannot imagine, in my twenties, being in a bathroom and putting a hard butt plug in my ass for a couple of hours to get ready for an appointment or a date with someone. What a trial of a thing to do and for what?
Any man worth his salt will be more than happy to help you, guide you and be kind and decent about it. If he has a larger than average sized cock, just go slower and slower still.
Final hint: When you think that you've used enough lube? Use more.
Consider exploring this with a man to be a GIFT to HIM. Pick someone special, whether it's a client or not, to practice with.
If you think of this as something that can be good and positive, the outcome will be good for you.
Good luck,
Elisabeth