My 1st Strap-On Experience

Sometimes I get really excited about something, and I just want to share it - thank God for these forums!

With that being said, yesterday I had the opportunity to try something I've been fantasizing about for quite some time...I'm talking "this-is-what-I-think-about-every-time-I'm-masturbating" type fantasy...strap-on play/role-reversal.

I was finally able to live out my fantasy and wear a strap-on and fuck a very willing man - and it was hot! It was so, so hot...it was everything I imagined and then some. I'm not sure if it was the power and control I felt, or if it was trying something new...I can't pinpoint what exactly was so thrilling about it, but I loved it, and I want more!

For everyone that has used strap-on's/boys-for-toys/etc, what was your first experience like? How did you get better? How did you learn to make it more enjoyable for your partner?

Also, as a side note: I am REALLY wanting to experience this again but with more a dominant experience.

Also, as a side note: I am REALLY wanting to experience this again but with more a dominant experience.

Gotta love a girl who wants to go for the "gold" Bambi, it is always nice to find a lady who not only uses a strapon, but really gets into toys for boys & the whole mental game that can accompany it. You will move up on a lot of guys "list." lol including mine.

I have been pegged twice so far, and loved the 2nd time. (The first was slightly painful and I was gagged so couldn't tell her. But the view of her on top of me in the mirror was still amazing.) I had trained my ass with butt plugs and vibrators, and that 2nd time she used some smaller toys on me to get me ready. I wasn't sure I was ready, but once she showed me the strapon I knew I wanted it, and she could tell from the look in my eyes. She put me on my stomach with a pillow underneath me, and lubed the dildo really well (in addition to the lubricated condom on the strapon.) She pushed in slowly, just a little at a time, always stopping and asking if I was ok and wanted more. Finally she was in all the way, and then fucked me for several minutes. It felt amazing, although unfortunately it wasn't quite enough to make me cum. She talked dirty to me the whole time, telling me I was her bitch, which I loved (it was a domination session. I am very submissive.) I had been wearing pantyhose and panties earlier, which I also loved. Besides just enjoying the feel, I always like to wear panties and hose/stockings for this. It makes me feel more submissive, and makes the role reversal more complete.

Although I don't live that close to you, I am willing to drive there sometimes if I have the right incentive. And being dominated and pegged by a gorgeous woman like you would definitely be the right incentive. So, what would you think about pegging a guy wearing stockings and panties?

Good for you Bambi!

Like Lhornbk, my first time was also painful. It was her first time too, so I don't really blame her. Like you Bambi, it was something she had always wanted to do but had never found a guy willing to let her. While I didn't really enjoy it, it roused my curiosity enough to try it again. After a bit of research, I chose Anhelica for the task. It was night and day. She was so much better that it turned into possibly the best sex of my life. I saw her recently and she used a double ended dildo this time, with me at one end and her at the other. That was so hot. This was not at all a D/s scene; just a couple of horny kinksters having fun. Can't wait to do it again

Damn......me, me, me!!!!

I luv luv luv palying with boy toys & strap-ons!!

Glad ya had fun...

It's so neat to see all the awesome men out there that are willing to have some really good fun! I was very worried that since it was my first time, I was going to be too rough, etc. Fortunately, my amazing partner for this task was pretty seasoned, so I think it worked out well!

Dallas, I have heard you are quite the legend! Hopefully I'll get is a down-pat as you!

Dallas is definitely an expert. We had a very enjoyable session a few weeks ago and she's very much on top of that game.

Oh boy. Might need to be a test subject.

Strap-on and toys for boys is and always will be my favorite type of play. Anything from soft and sensual, down to a hardcore lube filled ass banging fuckfest with restraints, gag, and blindfold

It's a mix of sensations. The visual side is looking at a woman approaching and knowing the bobbing phallus will reach me first. Watching her assuming a position that I would normally assume. Seeing her drawing her fingers along the length of her appendage. The first moment when she rubs her tool on me. The slow sensation of penetration. Followed by whatever she desires as I'm the one being fucked this time.

In my SO's words....


Hmm.To put it in guy terms, an anal orgasm feels like you are watching your favorite football team win the super bowl on the most state of the art television, eating the most delicious pizza ever created, drinking beer from a magical mug that never goes empty, pressing the button that ignites a few hundred pounds of explosives that levels an abandoned building, holding a winning power ball ticket, having Angelina Jolie and Jessica Beil massaging your feet and shoulders and realizing that the cable company is giving you free porn channels......all at the same time.

I love the newbie who wants to try strapon for the first time...especially when she I able to get off on it. Bambi - I would love to be your second!

Bambi, we should go toy shopping to build up your tool box...