i dont know what to do and it may seem silly
I have been seeing a client about 2x a week for a couple months he and I have a great relationship and always have fun. I know I am not the only provider he sees as he often shares some of his expieriences with me. Sometimes we even look at bp together and he asks my opinion of providers on there like have I heard anything about this one or pointing out to me who he has seen etc... Well recently he showed me a provider that he has recently seen and had a gOod time with I didn't know anything about her and just said. Yeah she is hott (I aam attracted to men and woman) now its such a small world that literally the next day I visited some friends in a topless bar and there she was the girl from bp my client had pointed out to me the day before . When I asked my friend who worked at the club if she knew her she told me the girl is only 16 and has a pimp... Now I don't know if I should tell my client I know its not my business but he and I have talked before about underage girls on bp and he has told me he thinks it is wrong and does not agree with it or would ever see anyone even if he suspected they were not of age but I don't want to seem jealous or over step my bounds I think it is wrong that he is not informed since I know he would have a issue with it any suggestions
Sorry for such a long post just wanted to get entire situation out
Seems odd that she's only 16 but allowed in a topless bar. It makes me wonder if your friend is really in the know or just passing along rumor/speculation. But, I don't know.
Regardless, if I were the guy, I would want you to tell me what you had heard. It doesn't sound like you have a pattern or history of being jealous of him seeing other gals or trying to prevent it, so I doubt he'll think that. I wouldn't try to push him about it though--just give him the info and let him make his own choices.
I would definitely want to know before I made that kind of mistake!!!! From the sound of your friendship, I don't think he would take it any way except that you had his back ... BTW ... you are lovely ... he has excellent taste in friends
Am I wrong to suggest here that you let everyone on this board know who that provider is? Perhaps in the alert section? I would have to imagine most individuals on this board would want to know that in order to avoid a very costly mistake. I'm fairly new to posting so if that' wrong of her to do than I'm sorry for suggesting it.
I would tell him, after I found everything about the girl was true and only if it was true. You may lose as a client if he finds everything was false.
Good luck with your decision.
I would tell him, after I found everything about the girl was true and only if it was true. You may lose as a client if he finds everything was false.
Good luck with your decision.
Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302
+1
Very slippery slope, and he probably already knows now. If she is 16, then she must be working at the club under fake ID. A lot of mess if you get into it.
This is something I would not just want to talk to anonymous board handles. The ramifications for both your client and you could be bad if a pimp is involved.
Good Luck,
PPE
1. Send an email to the STAFF here to let them know about this BP provider because the last thing they need is if she is under 18 to have reviews or worse, allow her an account to post ads.
I strongly advise about giving this gal's name and info to anyone on here or posting it because there are creepy guys who will be dialing the phone the minute you share the info.
Plus you have then created an ad for an underage pimped prostitute.
2. Let you regular client know that you believe she is not of legal age and warn him that if he sees her, he is risking being marked as a sexual predator for the rest of his life and having a felony.
Getting nailed with an of age escort is nothing to sneeze at BUT you might be able to explain it if needed. Being a sexual predator with a felony? Good luck finding a job or a place to live for the rest of your life.
Inform your client...it's in the best interest of all...best wishes.
Tell your friend right away. Be sure to tell him it's something that you 'heard', not something that you 'know'. Then it's up to him to use the info however he wants.
If you don't tell the guy and he ends up getting nailed for sex with a minor, not only will he be in serious trouble, he'll be branded a sex-offender for life. I think he'll appreciate a warning.
BTW, the part about the pimp I believe, but the underage part is a stretch if it's a club in Dallas because of the background checks that are required.
Tell him. But be upfront that the information isn't verified. He would have to be one sick man if he didn't care that he was having sex with a pimped-out 16-year old.
Oh my goodness I am really glad all most everyone feels the same way I was leaning towards it seems like a easy decition now to. Me .. The club she works at is in arlington. And kinda shady I did a little more research and she is working under fake I'd. But as far as I am concerned I am going to let him know what I heard I am sure that with. The character he has he will not. See her again even if there is doubt to her age I feel a lot. Better but silly that it was even a problem to me I guess I was jjust. Thinking about it too hard
Thanks everyone
Tell him now! As advised above, you don't need to get overly involved. "Hey, just so you know, this is what I heard....." Then he can dig is own grave it he wants.
Sexually touching a 16 y.o. is a second degree felony, 2-20 years. Plus, after prison, he'll have to register as a sex offender. That means no living near ......[the list is about 100 places long and growing daily]. There are two varieties of sex offender registration: 10 years, and life. Not sure which one applies here, I'm too lazy now to look it up.
One more thing----the statute of limitations. This I'm really curious about, so I did look it up. For this offense, there isn't one. It's like murder.