An Odd Trend In BDSM Rates

I used to dabble quite a bit in the BDSM aspect of the hobby about a decade ago. Still indulge in it occasionally, but I have a FWB's that I can pretty much see any time I want and she loves exploring her Femdom side. That being said, some of the local Femdom providers do charge a premium for their services. In some cases, I totally get it based on the expense of the hobby for outfits, toys, whips,and in some cases multiple themed rooms. But, the following is a recent trend that has me puzzled. A number of traditional escorts are offering BDSM sessions. Smart move in my opinion as you may attract more customers. And BTW, I'm sure one Mistress may come along and say that a true Mistress would never offer sexual services. I know that's the case with most, but who makes these rules? And escorts offering BDSM have been around for the 40 years I've been in and out of the hobby. Hell, I've had great BDSM sessions with escorts and certainly a BBBJ and intercourse ending beats the hell out of a simple handjob. But, I'm seeing that many of the escorts that now offer BDSM are up charging as much as an additional 100 to $150. Most of these escorts don't have more than a modest investment in BDSM. In most cases an outfit or two and a hundred bucks worth of paddles and toys. Seems like to me if you offer a vast number of escort services you would be delighted to tie a guy up, go through a little roleplay, tease and denial, spanking, for half an hour or 45 minutes rather than sucking a dick for 20 minutes, having your brains pounded out, maybe even repeating both to fulfil the hour. Seems like the more you could waste of the session on BDSM would be more desirable without the hefty upcharge. Am I the only one that feels this way?

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No I don't upcharge for any services and most of my playtimes involve heavy kink, role play,true CW and tease and denial. Butt I disagree that these activities are just filling up space. My record is 3.5h on tease and denial and by this I mean I keep he's cock hard and throbing for the whole playtime. So not only am I using my body butt my mind as well. Most of my playtime are 2h and up and they are lucky if I give them a 5min potty break halfway through lol.Yes my suitcase is filled with much more than lube and condoms and yes toys and such aren't cheap...I'd say about 5k a year.
Butt back to each lady has a right to charge what she feels is right for her. I enjoy my playmates and don't feel the need to upcharge on our fun. Again to each his on