I'll paint a target on my nuts and say providers. However sometimes it's easier to look at it from their perspective to understand why.
Guys:--->
"WOOHOO I'm going to get to see a hot chick nekkid and play bedroom golf with her." (That's why our horny asses show up early. )
Gals:---->
"I've gotta strange hornball guy coming over who could be looney-tunes and I'm gonna be nekkid and play bedroom golf with him."
Still it's nice if they at least come up with a reasonably believable bullshit story for cancelling.