Anyone ever think..

Hey there! It's almost time for me to visit and I can't keep my excitement in. But that's besides the point! lol




Anyone ever think about setting up a party like atmosphere at a local lounge or bar where all the providers and gents can get together. I've always wanted to do something like that in Denver, it's just hard to get the girls to accommodate schedules but I think it would be fun. Everyone getting together sharing stories, the girls get a chance to be social with not only the gentlemen but with the other women as well-- I don't know about other ladies but I find it hard to be around "normal" friend without accidentally mentioning something I shouldn't..
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Does sound fun but it's a waste of time to try something like that here in KC.. Gatherings happen but it's usually for smaller clicks.
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It has been discussed before, most recently in this thread
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1314609

"After organizing a bunch of these, I am of the firm opinion that it should be the ladies putting events like this together. Ladies have MUCH more experience screening the guys. They also know where they would feel comfortable, and can arrange the event to their liking. Also, if guys are going to have to pay to attend (to cover the rent of the space or other costs), they are more willing to pay a lady than a dude."
Does sound fun but it's a waste of time to try something like that here in KC.. Gatherings happen but it's usually for smaller clicks. Originally Posted by blk07lac
Sounds to me like you guys need a little social fun- Nice upscale place. I'm going to visit and see if I can't speak with some ladies about setting things up.

Would you attend at least?
It has been discussed before, most recently in this thread
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1314609

"After organizing a bunch of these, I am of the firm opinion that it should be the ladies putting events like this together. Ladies have MUCH more experience screening the guys. They also know where they would feel comfortable, and can arrange the event to their liking. Also, if guys are going to have to pay to attend (to cover the rent of the space or other costs), they are more willing to pay a lady than a dude." Originally Posted by KCQuestor
I'm coming to visit and since we don't have things like this in Denver I would hope to maybe get some advise about how to put something like this together. Of course it would need to be upscale (no body shots lol ) and have ladies who are not going to be so up front about getting a client back to the rooms-- More like making future dates or just very well meeting a friend.
I did like the events when we had them several years ago. It was a nice, relaxed, friendly atmosphere and I met a number of very nice providers and fellow hobbyists.

I would be inclined to attend another one if I knew the organizers had as solid a reputation as the old organizer did.
We have them in Austin like every month, there called meet and greets, very fun
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Sounds to me like you guys need a little social fun- Nice upscale place. I'm going to visit and see if I can't speak with some ladies about setting things up.

Would you attend at least? Originally Posted by Olivia Belle
Yes I would
Yes
KCQuestor's Avatar
Olivia,

Sorry, I've been out of town and haven't been on the board. If you want to plan something like this, I'd love to come. If you want advice in planning something in our little community, please feel free to message me.
Yes sounds interesting and fun. I would be in.
Some of these Provider & John meetups/parties got organized through my local board when I lived out West, and my reaction now is still the same I had then...

...There is absolutely no way in hell that I'd show my face in a public or quasi-public setting (or even a private party) with other Johns. Nope, nope, nope.

I value my privacy, as much as you can have of that precious commodity in our age of Orwellian cyber snooping.
I'm in!
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Count me in! Sounds fun however hard to organize. Just don't invite LE. lol
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If the meat to grinder, gear ratio is good? I would like to attend given schedules work. Lol