International day to end violence against sex workers

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Its here in a couple of days. How will you be commemorating Dec 17 International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers? Nice to see that there are many events being organized, even in Russia! You can do something with a group, or just go at it alone or with a friend or two. This year I'm going to do a private ceremony/memorial with candles and music and hope you will do something too, to remember the sex workers who have been victims of bad laws, violence, serial killers and other traumas. I do something every year. Even a minute of silence alone is good. Or send a few bucks to a sex worker organization. There are 1001 ways to participate. Everyone is invited, and sex workers need all the support and love they can get. .

here is the note from my friend Annie Sprinkle about it

allies and advocates from around the world in recognizing December 17, the International Day to End Violence against Sex Workers. As we approach this day, we seek to come together to remember those who we have lost this year, and renew our commitment in the on-going struggle for empowerment, visibility, and rights for all sex workers. On December 17th, We also renew our commitment to solidarity. The majority of violence against sex workers is not just violence against sex works—it’s also violence against transwomen, against women of color, against drug users, against immigrants. We cannot end the marginalization and victimization of all sex workers without also fighting transphobia, racism, stigma and criminalization of drug use, and xenophobia.
New York City – 2012

Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers was first recognized in 2003 as a memorial and vigil for the victims of the Green River Killer in Seattle Washington. Since 2003, Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers has empowered people from cities around the world to come together and organize against discrimination and remember victims of violence.
During the week of December 17th, sex worker communities and social justice organizations stage actions and vigils and work to raise awareness about violence that is commonly committed against sex workers. The assault, battery, rape and murder of sex workers must end. Racism and economic inequality and systems of colonialist, capitalist violence and oppression must end. The stigma and discrimination and criminalization that makes violence against us acceptable must end. Please join with sex workers around the world and stand against criminalization and violence committed against our communities.
A public letter from Annie Sprinkle and your invitation to join us

Annie Sprinkle has provided us with her thoughts about the origins of December 17 including ten ways to participate in the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. When Gary Ridgeway, the “Green River Killer,” was finally caught after murdering scores of sex workers Annie, “felt a need to memorialize my whore sisters that had died so horribly and needlessly.” She joined with Robyn Few, Stacey Swimme and Michael Foley (all members of the Sex Workers Outreach Project) to claim December 17 as the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. Annie shares that, “to date hundreds of people around the world have done dozens of memorials, actions, and events of all kinds, and the participation is growing. Won't you join us?”
A public letter from Annie Sprinkle



Green River Killer Gary Ridgeway said, "I picked prostitutes as victims because they were easy to pick up without being noticed. I knew they would not be reported missing right away and might never be reported missing. "I thought I could kill as many of them as I wanted without getting caught.” He confessed to having murdered ninety women. Sadly some Seattle prostitutes, their boyfriends or pimps, knew the Green River Killer was Gary Ridgeway for years, but were afraid to come forward for fear of getting arrested, or the police didn't believe those that did come forward, or the police didn't seem to care. Ridgeway's killing spree went on for over twenty years.
Violent crimes against sex workers go underreported, unaddressed and unpunished. There really are people who don't care when prostitutes are victims of hate crimes, beaten, raped, and murdered. No matter what you think about sex workers and the politics surrounding them, sex workers are a part of our neighborhoods, communities and families.
When Ridgeway was finally caught, I felt a need to memorialize my whore sisters that had died so horribly and needlessly. I cared, and I knew other people cared too. So I got together with Robyn Few, Founder of the Sex Worker Outreach Project, and SWOP members Stacey Swimme and Michael Fowley, and we claimed Dec. 17th as the International Day to End violence Against Sex Workers. We invited people to do memorials, vigils, and their chosen kind of events in their countries and cities. We produced a vigil at San Francisco's City Hall. To date hundreds of people around the world have done dozens of memorials, actions, and events of all kinds, and the participation is growing. Won't you join us? Here's how.
TEN WAYS TO PARTICIPATE IN INTERNATIONAL DAY TO END VIOLENCE AGAINST SEX WORKERS

(EVERYONE IS INVITED)
  1. Organize a vigil/memorial/gathering in your town. Simply choose a place and time. Invite people to bring their stories, writings, thoughts, related news items, poems, lists of victims, performances, and memories. Take turns sharing.
  2. Organize or attend a candlelight vigil in a public place.
  3. Do something at home alone which has personal meaning, such as a memorial bath, or light a candle.
  4. Call a friend and discuss the topic.
  5. Send a donation to a group that helps sex workers stay safer. Some teach self-defense or host web sites that caution workers about bad Johns. Donate to Sex Worker Outreach Project.
  6. Read the Sex Workers Outreach Project's web site, www.swop-usa.org, Do let others know about any planned Dec. 17 events by listing them on the site. (Although sadly this site is not current and I’m not sure if someone is following through on this.) There is also a wikipedia entry about Dec. 17 which you can read.
  7. Spread the word about the Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers and the issues it raises; blog, email, send a press release, forward this text to others.
  8. Attend a Dec. 17th Day to End Violence event/action/memorial. Everyone is welcome.
  9. Organize a panel discussion about violence towards sex workers. Procure a community space and invite speakers like sex workers, police, and families of victims.
  10. Create your own way to participate. People have done celebrations, Xmas caroling, protests at jails, lobbying at City Halls, naked women reading whore writings, performance art, visual art projects, and other creative, fun and moving things.
Each year when I attend a gathering on Dec. 17 for International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers it is always a deeply moving experience. I take some moments to feel grateful that I worked as a prostitute for twenty years and came out alive and well. I remember those who didn't survive and I fear for those who won't until some real changes are made.
In San Francisco we are in the process of organizing a whole events for Dec. 17. A city hall press conference, a memorial ritual at Center for Sex and Culture, and “Naked Women Reading” sex worker writings (Lady Monster’s Event).
Start organizing now! You’ll be glad you did. The fact that sex workers themselves organize the Dec. 17 day creates good press interest (it has been in many papers including NY Times) and helps garner compassion and understanding of how the bad, unfair laws against prostitution hurt so many. But then sex workers of all kinds (legal sex work) can be targets of acts of violence as well.
In whore pride solidarity,
Annie M. Sprinkle







http://www.december17.org/
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  • Toyz
  • 12-16-2014, 08:40 AM
So that means we have one day to bitch slap some Ho's before the rule kicks in, right?
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  • Tetas
  • 12-16-2014, 08:46 AM
How will you be commemorating Dec 17 International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers? Originally Posted by sue_nami
Hire a Dom and let her kick the shit out of me for a change?
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Yea guys, it's fun to joke and make light of this but it is a serious issue and women die every year doing this job. I for one, am honoring them and respecting their lives as important and valuable. Annie sprinkle started this movement 40 years ago and it is no safer for the women who do this job now than it was then. it is not a laughing matter to me.
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  • Toyz
  • 12-16-2014, 09:33 AM
Sue...I doubt any Johns here are abusers. We police our own pretty aggressively. I tend to make light of most topics cause I think everyone would rather smile than be sad. Yes its a good cause...and I will make it a point to get a gentle BJ tomorrow in Annie's honor.

Now...do you have actual statistics to support your claim that "its no safer now than 40 years ago"? And as far as safety, are there reported percentages showing where this work is less safe than say being a police man or woman? Or a shrimp in' boat Cap'n?
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How will you be commemorating Dec 17 International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers? Originally Posted by sue_nami
Thank's for letting us know.

Do you or anyone else know of a worthwhile sex worker's rights charity? I want one that stands up for sex workers, perhaps a legal fund, not some self-serving good-for-nothing rescue organization of "Christians" or rad-fems that tries to talk sex workers into bagging groceries. Ideally they would score well on Charity Navigator or Charity Watch, but not all are rated. If nothing promising is recommended, I think a modest donation to a substance abuse rehab charity will be a second choice.
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  • ztonk
  • 12-16-2014, 10:01 AM
Yes its a good cause...and I will make it a point to get a gentle BJ tomorrow in Annie's honor. Originally Posted by Toyz
Toyz... I think you should show some serious support for this and go for the golden shower in Annie Sprinkle's honor, not just a gentle BJ!

Now...do you have actual statistics to support your claim that "its no safer now than 40 years ago"? Originally Posted by Toyz
I agree with you... these "statistics" are always questionable. Ladies providing sex services in the Austin area are reasonably safe... especially among our ECCIE brethren.

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I agree with you... these "statistics" are always questionable. Originally Posted by ztonk
Most are...

http://www.amazon.com/How-Lie-Statis.../dp/0393310728

Ladies providing sex services in the Austin area are reasonably safe... especially among our ECCIE brethren. Originally Posted by ztonk
What's reasonable?
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Annie's showers were of the female ejaculation kind and not golden in nature. she was the first woman to openly squirt in porno and the industry had no way to market squirting at that point so it was labeled erroneously as golden showers. as far as safety, thanks for helping me clarify my thoughts, I meant in a general world wide sense and not just in our little slice of heaven guys. it's worldwide women's rights issue. thanks for pointing out how lucky we are here in Austin, I agree! I will ask Annie right now what charity she likes best for this and get back to you here asap.
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http://tgaafund.blogspot.com/
this immediately came to mind but not sure if it is the best and what Annie would say, i will let you know. here is what Annie said about this one, the golden age appreciation fund.
"There is a new website dedicated to helping golden age porn stars in need! I can vouch for the people who started it. Good folks. Seems that our friend, porn star Kay Parker, who is 70 now, lost her home and is homeless. She's so lovely. Very kind and generous always. If you are a kay parker fan, send her some love!"
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If I were a 'Dexter'-style serial killer, I would go after guys who prey on prostitutes.
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ok here is what annie said
http://www.iswface.org/contributions.html Definitely give to Norma Jean Almodovar of Int'l Sex Worker Foundation for Art, Culture and Education. She was a police officer who became a call girl who became an awesome activist and gives it all to the cause!
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the woman running this is Norma Jean Almodovar "One of ISWFACE's main projects right now is to educate the media and politicians with the research we did and which is posted on our other website http://www.policeprostitutionandpolit ics.com - and especially the "Operation Do The Math" which shows the truth about the prostitution abolitionists' fabricated numbers of both child sex trafficking victims and the 'end the demand' campaign. We just finished printing out all sorts of material to mail out, but we need donations to pay for the mailing. Just so you know- no one here is paid a salary and all donations go directly to pay for our projects." she also just added this info. "We are a 501 (c ) 3 non profit and you can find our 990s on any of the charity information websites - and if making purchases on Amazon, you can choose ISWFACE as your charity for a portion of your purchase to go to us."
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She also wanted me to Be sure to post links to the educational site- the www.policeprostitutionandpolit ics.com site- where there is all sorts of information which may be helpful to anyone who is challenging the lies told by the abolitionists.
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ok here is what annie said
http://www.iswface.org/contributions.html Definitely give to Norma Jean Almodovar of Int'l Sex Worker Foundation for Art, Culture and Education. She was a police officer who became a call girl who became an awesome activist and gives it all to the cause! Originally Posted by sue_nami
Thank you.