It is a good feeling that comes from helping others. Some people really need help.
But how do you separate those from the lazy bastards that do nothing. And nobody wants
someone drooling over your car at a stop light.
Should just help people regardless. Why pass judgement if you are there to help?
There's a Bible verse about giving money to the poor, even though they will spend it on alcohol. Why should that matter? That's the only joy they receive in life.
As pig breeders, I am in a rotation among fellow pig breeders where we get all of the rejected produce at a local grocery store.
My wife used to be a Produce Manager at another grocery store, she feels confident that she can spot when fruits or veggies are still 'good' for human consumption.
Usually about twice a week I go to the grocery store and pickup their 'spoiled' veggies. At home we sort through it, and then I go out again to deliver it to a local homeless shelter.
This is a couple hundred pounds of veggies each week.
It isnt hard to separate the gimme crowd with the people that want to work.
Most hookers want to take as much as they can without doing anything
Then as soon as they think they marked you will reach out and ask for shit.
Strippers are the same way.
Stick to people close to you to help and stop giving handouts to strangers.
Its like feeding a stry cat, they dont hunt if you feed them.
I just don't want people drooling over my car at a stop light.