Many girls are newbie friendly. You have many options:
1) Approach like a gentleman. Don't go about contacting each and every provider sounding desperate and creepy....
2) Ask for their screening criteria. Prepare for your exams and pass it.
3) Establish yourself with another newbie provider....honeymoon with her for a bit.
4) Get verified on p411.
And get eccie premium.
My 4 cents