How to talk about donations?

I am new in the hobby. I searched for advice on the forum search tool but just can't seem to get the right key words, plus I'm on a mobile device.

Ladies and old school hobbyist,

How do you ask via text or phone when the provider does not clearly state on their showcase or P411 their 'donation'? I have seen two very nice ladies recently, their's were clear as day.

This may be a taboo question, so PM advice would be great! I owe the two ladies a review, sorry about being late, coming soon!

Thanks ahead,
lhtx.

Someone else may think differently but texting something like "$/hr?" is how I'd probably do it. Assuming their activities are well explained you can guess anything on that menu is on the table at that hourly rate. Greek might be extra for lots of providers so if that's what you are looking for then expect to pay more. Greek is anal, if you haven't come across that term yet. If the provider is reviewed, and lets face it there is NO reason to see a provider that isn't, the review will tell you what that person spent and should give a decent representatoin of the experience.

good luck. and follow your gut, if something feels funny/fishy/risky pull the rip cord and get the hell away. SO many examples in here of "it just didn't feel right and I should have walked away before she robbed me".

Ackvt,

Thanks for the feedback. I guess I will just go with the direct approach. Urban dictionary had been my best friend lately. I still can't find NE or SE on UD, my imagination just isn't that great. I had to look up Greek....

I guess once I get some reviews under my belt I can go with the direct approach and not stress about running someone off. I really wanted to see the lady I was exchanging text with today. But she has gone radio silent after I referred to someone else review to verify rates, 'so we are on the same page'. I hope she comes back around.

Thanks!
lhtx.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=8752 this may help you as well

Politely and respectfully, which is easiest to get across via email, IMO. Pretty much I would just mention that they didn't have a donation listed in their showcase / website / P411 profile and you just wanted to make sure you had the correct donation before the session.

Sometimes women have their rates on their personal websites

If a lady doesn't have some indication of the rate on her ad, showcase, or 411, ....don't see her. You can go by reviews...but you shouldn't.

Step 1 is to get your P411 account then you can see her base price and what's included/available. Then you NEVER actually have to discuss rates until you want to deviate from the base case. Many times I've already finished the deed and then put down the donation...with a published rate/menu - there is little doubt/room for dispute.

Note some P411's are visible without logging in. So start there. The url's are simple:

www.preferred411.com\pxxxxx where the latter is the lady's p number.

Ask after you've been screened.

Ask. Don't assume. Some providers make it simple with one rate, others have different rates for different advertising mediums and/or services (FBSM vs escort, for example), so let her know how you found her and what you're looking for.

I typically just ask directly, but politely. I mention where I found her, and that I'd just like to know the rate.

It is, indeed, a delicate question to ask. When and how to ask.

I can add, however, that "How much you gonna be charging me, Bitch?", ain't a good way to go about it.

NE - (North East/End or something) refers to getting to touch her breasts. SE- (South East/End or something) refers to getting to feel her ass or pussy. I usually see these terms with massages as a full service session would obviously include NE and SE.

The hard part is since you are new the provider will be cautious as you could be LE (law enforcement) and responding with a number to a direct question could be evidence. So just texting, or asking about rates for an appointment without specifying what the purpose of the appointment is or certain activities that may take place is best. I suppose this goes to what Luxury is saying, once screened the LE issue should be resolved and the information exchange is more open. I get Globe's point but I don't think you are talking about discussing rates as in a negotiation, you are just trying to find what the rate is to begin with. The more experience you get the easier this will become.

Thanks everyone!

After playing around the site a bit more, I realized I place this thread in the forum. Mod would you please move this into the Co-Ed forum?

Easy, simply say "I did not see your donation listed, may I inquire?"

If the Provider is established and verified, this info can easily be found without having to ask ... It's going to be somewhere on eccie, ter, P411.

If the Provider is not verified, I would shy away from seeing her much less asking ... That question can get you in more trouble than you want or need.