Screening/Giving up info

Hey everyone (:

I'm pretty new to a lot of this but I pretty much got the hang of how to verify people and how to get verified.

How do providers and hobbyists feel about giving up your personal info?? Some providers say it's a must and won't see anyone who isn't on p411.

Other providers says that some girls may try to use that against you. I'm in the process of being verified and have had some guys ask me for MY info after asking for theirs

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So gents,
Is it important to you for the escort to be verified? and are you normally willing to give that info away if the girl is at least verified or reviewed?

And gals,
Do you only see clients that are verified? And do you think it's important to be verified ?

Thanks a bunch

Posting taint photos and participating in BBCR are the most important things.

Getting guys to turn over personal info is a bit dicey. Some guys don't have a problem with it, most do though. It largely depends on the provider. If she has a long track record for being trustworthy guys may be more comfortable with it. A new gal to the scene may have a tough time getting personal info from a guy.

Glad you found your way here Keira!
Hopefully people will get you good answers!

I prefer not to give personal info. when I first started hobbying I gave it as a method of screening to veteran providers and it worked out, never had issues.

I did p411 later, and really liked it better than some of the eccie methods. But I think p411 could still be vulnerable to a stalker trying to get a date to do a lady harm. Nothing is foolproof.

As a lady, you should not give out your personal stuff, as ladies have had issues with stalkers that meant for, or succeed in administering physical harm. women are usually already vulnerable if they have an apartment incall.

One time, when I was doing long date, and I paid for a hotel room, the provider was present when I was approached as mr "real name", then they made a conversation about my last name and asked if I was related to some semi famous people in rochester. Later, I mentioned to provider, "well, now you know who I am", and I laughed... and she politely said, "you know where I really live". I think the provider is much more vulnerable then the clien try, so I have no issues about references or heavy screening.

I don't give out my information. It's too dangerous considering some of the things that have been done.

Most anything anyone needs to know about me is right here. Peruse my posts; take into account longevity, personality, etc. and find out where my heart lies.

Many providers demand, in their screening processes, such things as driver’s license, proof of workplace (including telephone number) and other such sensitive matter.

In my opinion; any individual of sound mind would be a fool to give out said information.

And before some Einstein replies, “Well, the ladies must be assured their safety”. I understand this full well. But what about my safety?

You want my documentation? You show me yours and I’ll show you mine!!!

Drummer,
I second that !!!

Drummer,
I second that !!!
Originally Posted by Franklin4

Third!!!!!

[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Most anything anyone needs to know about me is right here. Peruse my posts; take into account longevity, personality, etc. Originally Posted by The Drummer

I would like to think that being a long standing member who is active on the boards and has plenty of reviews that that would stand for something. Like being able to get a pass on screening. But at the same time I understand the concerns of the ladies. Especially if they're working out of their home. Working out of one's home is a big deal that guys don't always seem to appreciate. I probably wouldn't give personal info to a provider who only does outcalls or works out of hotels. But when the incall is there actual home that's a bit different to me. Ultimately it comes down to the particular provider. The guys have legitimate concerns as well. Especially if they're married or have an SO.

Third!!!!! Originally Posted by bjwstw

Fourth that!!!!

Plenty of fish in the sea.....

Make it a very easy process for them, If they pm me through eccie I check their web presence to see if they're active on the board. If they are, I send a quick pm to the most recent lady they've reviewed asking for a reference. I can usually get a guy screened without any more personal info than a handle and phone number. Become acquainted with Google, because your going to be needing it.

I'm certainly not giving info out to a lady that isn't posting face pics. I get why she wouldn't. I can't say expecting her to read enough posts to realize who is going to get irate when things don't go their way is realistic either. As legit as The Drummer is, fakes are a dime a dozen on this unverified board.

Extrememly interesting that the loudest whiner of all about multiple handles thinks an anonymous handle is enough for verification. Ponderously obtuse, that is. If you believe 5% of what you read on here you're deceiving yourself.

Be observant and read a lot.

I can understand why some of the gentleman do not want to provide personal info. There have been rumors of girls using the info against the client.

When dealing with a well know and respected verified provider I feel there should not be an issue in providing a pic id and proof of where you work. especially if you have no posted reviews and/or very few or no posts at all.

I feel that my safety and the safety of the other ladies is of the utmost importance. And if a client can not understand that and go with the screening, then they can not be a client of mine.

I would like to think that being a long standing member who is active on the boards and has plenty of reviews that that would stand for something. Like being able to get a pass on screening. But at the same time I understand the concerns of the ladies. Especially if they're working out of their home. Working out of one's home is a big deal that guys don't always seem to appreciate. I probably wouldn't give personal info to a provider who only does outcalls or works out of hotels. But when the incall is there actual home that's a bit different to me. Originally Posted by cowboy8055

Exactly. I work from my home. Which is why my process is strict when it comes to being screened.

I have no problem saying NO to a meeting if you can not or will not complete the process.
My safety comes first and foremost!