A Big Misunderstanding

First I would like to thank everyone here who has made my welcome to eccie a positive one. I have enjoyed spending time with some of you special people here.

Secondly, I would like to address a big misunderstanding that I had with one of the members here, which led to a negative review. I had apologized to this particular member for the misunderstanding, both in person and through pm. I had even went as far as to offer to make it up to him, but he refused the offer. I have 10 other reviews that speak as to the quality of my services.

I would like to go on the record and clairfy the misunderstanding publicly. No where in my reviews or my ads do I offer msog at my special rate. When asked if that is on the menu, I let them know BEFORE they knock on my door what my conditions for that item are. I do not consider that upselling as I try to make sure that both parties are on the same page before the session has started.

Misunderstandings often can cause some hard feelings. Both parties are presenting their own views as they recall what happened. It is good that a make up offer was extended, and time will probably tell the tale.

Since the make up offer was not accepted, I would love to fill in and accept it personally . I try to add a little humor to the situation, but honestly....

I would love to see you sweetie. Call or pm me and I am sure we can work something out.

Rene, you are certainly within your rights to change the level of service based on the price, but it does result in some issues.

Most of the ladies here sell time. What the individuals decide to do with it, is between two consenting adults. There is no law against selling time.

By giving a different price for the absense on MSOG, you are stipulating indirectly that money is being exchanged for sex. That is definitely against the law. Setting your pricing this way makes convicting you easier for law enforcement.

It's up to you... but the reason most girls sell time and not sex, is exactly that reason.

No where in my reviews or my ads do I offer msog at my special rate. When asked if that is on the menu, I let them know BEFORE they knock on my door what my conditions for that item are.
Originally Posted by Ravishing*Rene*

1) Would you add a statement "msog extra" to your rate schedule if that is the case?

2) In this particular case were services discussed before the session?

Do you know why he didn't accept the second offer you gave him, im just curious.

Myself, I don't worry about msog, I'm lucky to get one in an hour!

1) Would you add a statement "msog extra" to your rate schedule if that is the case?

2) In this particular case were services discussed before the session? Originally Posted by trynagetlaid

1) I have no problem adding that statement, in fact it is already done.

2) Services were discussed before the session through pm. I have provided the same level of services to others before and not included the msog, which is where the misunderstanding on my part came in. Again, I apologized more than once and tried to explain myself, and even offered to make it up to him.

I offer the ultimate gfe experience, and I like for both parties to be on the same page before the session even starts. That way the illusion is not broken in any way. My reviews speak toward the level and quality of my services and they have all been consistent, except for this one. This was a misunderstanding on my part, and I took full responsibility for it.

Do you know why he didn't accept the second offer you gave him, im just curious. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

I am not sure why he didn't. The only responses that I got from him was that I ripped him off and to wait for the review. I am very professional in the way I run my business and always try to make everyone happy. I will always be the first one to admit when I am in the wrong and will do my best to make it up.

Myself, I don't worry about msog, I'm lucky to get one in an hour! Originally Posted by hd

Same here, HD.

Several ladies have told me MSOG is claimed more often than it happens. Maybe the reason a provider would be against it is because unsuccessful attempts at follow up pleasure can be exhausting?

Not my problem.

Ladies you should always remember a part of the Hobbyist code is we all want to pop twice for the same price.

I'm not a msog guy either, except on rare occasions. Usually when I try I feel like I'm forcing it anyways, like a second trip to the AYCE buffet when you're not ven hungry anymore, just to get your money's worth.

Renee, might I make a suggestion? He had his review, now you've had your say. You can request that a mod close this thread, and that way it won't devolve as these often do, and it will just fade away and remain nothing more than a bump on the road, provided you continue to produce happy customers. Just a suggestion.

I offer the ultimate gfe experience Originally Posted by Ravishing*Rene*

You offer the ultimate GFE but don't offer MSOG? Seems to me that those two contradict each other. I mean, what if the guy's tea kettle blows in the first 10 minutes? I'm not saying your services aren't wonderful. I am sure they are. But most guys expect MSOG with the "ultimate" experience. Of course, I have no idea how long said session was either. 15 mins? hell no on the MSOG lol but that's not an "ultimate" GFE either.

But you will find that one negative review will not overshadow all the other positive ones. So don't sweat it. You have a good reputation.

Meg

I offer the ultimate gfe experience

Then offer MSOG for the hour. Or don't claim GFE.

You offer the ultimate GFE but don't offer MSOG? Seems to me that those two contradict each other. I mean, what if the guy's tea kettle blows in the first 10 minutes? I'm not saying your services aren't wonderful. I am sure they are. But most guys expect MSOG with the "ultimate" experience. Of course, I have no idea how long said session was either. 15 mins? hell no on the MSOG lol but that's not an "ultimate" GFE either.

But you will find that one negative review will not overshadow all the other positive ones. So don't sweat it. You have a good reputation.

Meg Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

You beat me to the point Meg.
A "girlfriend" would not stop you if you came in the first 15 minutes!!!!
What is the point of not offering MSOG.....if you like what you do,then why not enjoy the full time the customer is paying for. I think some providers use "no msog" to cut the session as short as possible. There are way too many fine ladies on here who love what they do and will NOT stop after one pop. If i were you i would just raise my price to include MSOG and not have to worry about making him feel ripped off. Forget specials.
Just my 2 cents worth.