ATF's and older men

ziggy48's Avatar
I am an older gentleman 60+, few pounds overweight and can't do the things I could when I was 30
I have never used a provider until now.
I was looking for an affair with out all the strings and drama. However I wanted a bit more of a connection than just that. I wanted to connect with someone that would connect with me. I guess be an ATF.
I now believe this is unreasonable thinking on my part.. The favorites of a provider I believe would be much younger, fit and of course great "ability" (goes along with fit). I have none of that . After all why wouldn't a provider want someone like themselves. Why settle for less? So I now believe the best I can expect is to meet some wonderful women and have fun but expect no more.
My questions are:
Do the older gentlemen find it the same way?
Do the providers find their ATF's are not the older men but mostly the younger fit ones?
DallasRain's Avatar
Most of my ATFs are over 50!!
Its all about personality & uniquenessness to me!!
All of my best sessions are with men that are way older than me. They have the best manners and know how to treat a lady.

Im sure you can what you are looking for, just treat the ladies right.
Timk48's Avatar
Ziggy48, I have looked far and wide for almost the same thing without much success. The ladies do appreciate gentlemen that treat them right and there are some providers who can become very good friends.
Again i can only speak for myself....yes young guys are nice to look at, but as far as COMPLETELY knowing how to treat a lady IN AND OUT of the bed....we need to leave that up to the older guys with experience....
They have that soft touch that makes your hair on your back stand up so to say....
They know that you have to get a grl in that mood, by caressing her just alittle, maybe those soft little kisses on her body including the neck...
They know how to go nice and slow, fast is good tooo, but the slow builds up the O and makes it sooo good....
OK i need to stop.....you all catch my drift thou
I have currently 1 ATF and he's not old but not young either, and is very good at what he does!!!
But always lookn for that DATY ATF.....any applications? lol
boardman's Avatar
But always lookn for that DATY ATF.....any applications? lol Originally Posted by babydollsnow
You called?