What would you do???

I had a guy call and tell me that he is an off duty sheriff and wants to set up an appt and this is his first time doing this .........said he wanted to be up front that he was a sheriff and this was his first time to do this .......im like what the heck said i could come to his house and everything but the whole im a cop thing doesnt sit well with me lol......would you see him or not ??? i need opinions please .........from me i say hell no run but seems like he wants to meet at his house off duty??? what the heck
it's up to you... hell sometimes sheriff's need love too.

a year or so ago, I used to have a guy friend who knew what I did, but he really didn't give a shit.
And he never used his authority to get anything out of me. But then again, I met him outside of the hobby, but something about him, most likely his job, made me feel kinda uneasy.

If I were you I wouldn't go to his house for a date. Maybe meet in a very public place for dinner/ drinks? Don't totally brush him off because you'll never know when or where you will see him next, but just explain that the situation makes you uncomfortable.
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No. Originally Posted by LexusLover
This.
No. Originally Posted by LexusLover
damn...

what LL said.
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I wouldn't but I think that daphne's advice of doing it with finesse is good advice.
My fantasy would be that a female officer started providing and she would meet her clients in her uniform. That would be fun or just bang an officer lady, damn have y'all seen some of these HPD lady officers there hot. When they are working a club, a bar or a sporting event and I see a hot looking one I get a few in many and get enough courage and hit on them. They seem to enjoy, my praises.

So if your fantasy is like mine, DO IT! But b careful!
No. Originally Posted by LexusLover
You should listen to him.....he has experience in this field!!

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...but he did say that he was "off duty".


Heh!

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They are never off duty lol.
I just have this whole 'appearing on an program on Investigation Discovery' thing running through my head.
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If you want to give it it a go Id say dont do a outcall to his place, if it is a trick then he could have the place wired with surveillance and audio recording. Better off doing an incall far away from ur normal incall area.
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Sheriff Sheriff or Internet Sheriff?
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You should listen to him.....he has experience in this field!! Originally Posted by babydollsnow
Yes I do have experience in the "field" of using common sense.

"alexis," my common sense tells me .... "No."

And "alexis," there is not one of these "advisers" on here that are suggesting that you "play" along with this guy, who will be fronting the bail money to get you out of jail, hire an attorney for you, pay your fine and costs, and/or do your time.
Escorting is not illegal. Sex for money is.
You are an escort and charge for your time, not for sex. So you are doing nothing illegal. If he wants to pay you to spend some time with you, then this should be a non-issue. If later gets horny and pulls his pants down, it is up to you if you want him to see you again or not. So you are only selling time. As long as this issue is clear, you should be on the safe side.
But, having said the above, I would not do it. If he's unethical, you could get in trouble for selling sex, if it occurs. If you don't know the guy, steer clear.