Time only.....

Eccie Addict's Avatar
Ok fellas.... How many of you pay or have paid for time/companionship only. No sex, just tge company of a provider?
It happens alot more often than you think. Lots of my friends get in touch with me when there is a movie, museum, or festival they would love to attend but just don't want to go alone.
am-a-pleaser's Avatar
I've paid for time with no bcd.
Pink Floyd's Avatar
I got screwed by one girl one time. She advertised at one price and the price suddenly changed halfway into our date. I am used to girls really talking to me a lot when we first meet so I thought nothing that this girl was goin on and on. Then the price changed after she told me how great she was and how she was worth more than her advertised rate. I told her that I had only brought the advertised rate, because that is what I always do on a first date incall. She kept tossing around the name of one of my ATFs for doing doubles. So now I figured I am screwed, and not in a good way, so I just cut my losses, and prepare to leave. I am upset, but remained totally calm, mostly because I was in shock. As I am walking out the door she walks up gives me a big hug and kiss and says she wants me to be one of her regulars. I politely tell her that I will not be back ever. WTF was going through her head that she thought that what she did was OK. She even gave me a Provider OK on P411, so basically I paid for an OK. I immediately PMed my ATF and she said that she would no longer recommend her to anyone. This was a girl that I had been talking to for about 4 months. I didn't review her, but I know she lost much more money by pulling her little stunt than she made off me. She called one girl I know and asked her for some business. I haven't mentioned her name here, and you won't find her in my reviews.
spunky's Avatar
I have, its called marriage!

Just Sayin
Eccie Addict's Avatar
Let me clarify...... In the hobby not the RW....
Still Looking's Avatar
Not on purpose! You race enough everyone gets a flat now and then!
I got screwed by one girl one time. She advertised at one price and the price suddenly changed halfway into our date. I am used to girls really talking to me a lot when we first meet so I thought nothing that this girl was goin on and on. Then the price changed after she told me how great she was and how she was worth more than her advertised rate. I told her that I had only brought the advertised rate, because that is what I always do on a first date incall. She kept tossing around the name of one of my ATFs for doing doubles. So now I figured I am screwed, and not in a good way, so I just cut my losses, and prepare to leave. I am upset, but remained totally calm, mostly because I was in shock. As I am walking out the door she walks up gives me a big hug and kiss and says she wants me to be one of her regulars. I politely tell her that I will not be back ever. WTF was going through her head that she thought that what she did was OK. She even gave me a Provider OK on P411, so basically I paid for an OK. I immediately PMed my ATF and she said that she would no longer recommend her to anyone. This was a girl that I had been talking to for about 4 months. I didn't review her, but I know she lost much more money by pulling her little stunt than she made off me. She called one girl I know and asked her for some business. I haven't mentioned her name here, and you won't find her in my reviews. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi
If it helps, FNF, I've steered several people away from this person myself solely based on what happened to you.
shorty's Avatar
No!! Don't think I could justify the money for a Time Only date. If she was willing to go out for dinner n drinks plus whatever at no charge, Yes!!
No!! Don't think I could justify the money for a Time Only date. If she was willing to go out for dinner n drinks plus whatever at no charge, Yes!! Originally Posted by shorty

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Pink Floyd's Avatar
If it helps, FNF, I've steered several people away from this person myself solely based on what happened to you. Originally Posted by IDMT
She burned a lot of bridges that night, but I doubt that she has connected the dots yet. She has lost way more than what she took me for. Notice how there is no comment on her.
Naomi4u's Avatar
I hear about it happening a lot. However, I've only had it twice. I know some ladies have the "social outing" only rate package on their websites.
Still Looking's Avatar
I have seen many a provider outside of the Hobby. I have NEVER paid for their time. I'm not sure why someone would do this. Providers should certainly be compensated for their time, but the question is why do guys do that? I have thought to hire a provider to wear a teddy and heels and from a standing position clean the base boards at my home.... but I know where that would go!
I have had a couple of dates without sex. I also have had some ladies join me for lunch without charging me. As one young lady said, "I have to eat, and I enjoy having someone to chat with while I dine." (BCD, she could be a real match for a tiger.)
setman's Avatar
when the companioship outweighs the sex. I am a frequent flyer into the major cities and prefer a day of companionship for dinner and the sights rather than a night of sex.

Ladies, you may PM me for my July schedule.