NEW ACRONYM--"OPP" (ONE POP PROVIDER)

In the "Deal Breakers" thread, there was the following post:

A deal breaker for me would be the following ...
.asking about "special's"
.expecting time (lots of time) without donation required
.MSOG within an HR, extend your time if you want this.GFE include's cuddling,passion and besos not just boom boom
.my time my boundaries ,respect and be respected.
.hygiene,clean is never an "option"
Those are my deal breaker's when seeing this <-- provider

Happy New Years!
Safire Sweet Originally Posted by safire_sweet

I think we have a new acronym = OPP = One Pop Provider.

Seriously, I think these are two concepts that are counterintuitive to the hobby. First, if a lady is OPP, I think she should advertise it clearly (and watch her business plummet).

Second, I agree that a lady can set her boundaries. And it should be clearly done before the meeting. But it is NOT her time, it is his. He paid for it. This is not a relationship, but a business transaction.

Finally, where a provider (Safire here) knows that what she offers is so contrary to the norm, she should be extremely up front with it. Similar to those ladies that offer massage only. You'll see rated for L1, L2 & L3. With Safire's limited menu, I think she should clearly set it out in her ads/profiles and charge accordingly.

Comments???

I think you'd better come up with another acronym; New Orleans residents are going to be really uncomfortable with that one. OPP = Orleans Parish Prison, not a place either escorts or clients want to think about.

If this is Safire's business model and it works for her I won't knock it. I'm sure she does what's best for her.

However for me, GFE means a lot of kissing, cuddling, talking (getting to know each other), fondling (lol) AND MSOG. I left something out on purpose . If I were a hobbyist paying $300 an hour and up I would expect msog. If a guy is paying $300 an hour and up that is HIS hour and he can do whatever he wants as long as it's within my boundaries.

There was one discussion on another site where the girl asked "If we charged for pops".. lol. I told her she could charge for "pops" if she wanted to but not to advertise as a GFE provider.

There are a lot of ladies that are "OPP" and do just fine. If that's their business model and it makes their clients happy, More power to them. I dunno how that'll work though. I don't think I'd want to tell a client.. "no you can't go again it's $100 extra" .. What a way to kill a hardon!

There's also more guys out there who can only have one orgasm or only time for one.

However a lady wants to run her business, its her business. If you're not a client of hers, what do you care?

I think you'd better come up with another acronym; New Orleans residents are going to be really uncomfortable with that one. OPP = Orleans Parish Prison, not a place either escorts or clients want to think about. Originally Posted by AngelOK

How 'bout Nice One Pop Escort = NOPE

OPP ....new acronym

No.

How 'bout Nice One Pop Escort = NOPE Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

TFF!

I think you'd better come up with another acronym; New Orleans residents are going to be really uncomfortable with that one. OPP = Orleans Parish Prison, not a place either escorts or clients want to think about. Originally Posted by AngelOK

Word!

OAD works better even though it's a band lol. "One And Done."

Happy New Year!

If this is Safire's business model and it works for her I won't knock it. I'm sure she does what's best for her.

However for me, GFE means a lot of kissing, cuddling, talking (getting to know each other), fondling (lol) AND MSOG. I left something out on purpose . If I were a hobbyist paying $300 an hour and up I would expect msog. If a guy is paying $300 an hour and up that is HIS hour and he can do whatever he wants as long as it's within my boundaries.

There was one discussion on another site where the girl asked "If we charged for pops".. lol. I told her she could charge for "pops" if she wanted to but not to advertise as a GFE provider.

There are a lot of ladies that are "OPP" and do just fine. If that's their business model and it makes their clients happy, More power to them. I dunno how that'll work though. I don't think I'd want to tell a client.. "no you can't go again it's $100 extra" .. What a way to kill a hardon! Originally Posted by Naomi4u

+ 1, I agree with Naomi , to each his own(providers ) I say Its your time to spend as u want IF u want to stand on your head and pop every 10 minutes , fine with me I'll catch it lol

+ 1, I agree with Naomi , to each his own(providers ) I say Its your time to spend as u want IF u want to stand on your head and pop every 10 minutes , fine with me I'll catch it lol Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Maybe when I was 17, LMAO

I hope to never have to write another review that contains any info regarding a one popper. If a lady is THAT good and can get this old fart to go more than once per hour, I should be allowed to.

+ 1, I agree with Naomi , to each his own(providers ) I say Its your time to spend as u want IF u want to stand on your head and pop every 10 minutes , fine with me I'll catch it lol Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

LOL @ Stand on your head and pop ever 10 minutes.. Just had to make me laugh huh? You're too funny SNL! That's why I heart you!!

I agree with being up front about what you offer. I have never had a problem with respecting a providers limits. I also agree that no matter what the ammount you pay it is still the hobbyist time. Now dont get me wrong he still has to respect her boundaries that she has set, but its kind of hard as a hobbyist to know what the boundaries are if they aren't set up front. Am I wrong? We arent mind readers any more than the providers are.

I may be jumping to conclusions here, but in fairness to her, she might be trying to eliminate the frequent requests for another pop when there are only a few minutes left. There is nothing more frustrating than being forced to mention the time in this scenario.

A side effect of embellished reviews is that many men are under the impression that multiple pops are common in a one hour appointment. I can say without reservation that in my experience, they are not. I don't think it's fair to say that we must try for multiple pops in an appointment no matter how much time is remaining, because then we will almost inevitably be put in the uncomfortable position of stopping all activites right in the middle and saying it's time to go.

I will definitely say for my clients who can have multiple pops in one appointment without going significantly over the time: Let's do it!

I may be jumping to conclusions here, but in fairness to her, she might be trying to eliminate the frequent requests for another pop when there are only a few minutes left. There is nothing more frustrating than being forced to mention the time in this scenario.

A side effect of embellished reviews is that many men are under the impression that multiple pops are common in a one hour appointment. I can say without reservation that in my experience, they are not. I don't think it's fair to say that we must try for multiple pops in an appointment no matter how much time is remaining, because then we will almost inevitably be put in the uncomfortable position of stopping all activites right in the middle and saying it's time to go.

I will definitely say for my clients who can have multiple pops in one appointment without going significantly over the time: Let's do it! Originally Posted by China Doll

You may be right in your interpretation, but it didn't appear to be what she said.

As someone who is a one-pop-a-week kinda guy, I will say I shy away from a lady who is a one and done kinda lady. Not because it affects me, but because of the principle of the thing. I am willing to send my business to ladies who are MSOG and financially support that attitude rather than financially support a lady whose attitude I believe to be contrary to one of the basic tenets of the hobby.

So, even though she's a good looking lady, appears to have a body type that attracts me, is in a market where I travel, I won't be seeing her. And I would encourage other hobbyists to take the same tack.

OAD works better even though it's a band lol. "One And Done." Originally Posted by London Rayne