I know there's no real answer to this question, as it's really just a preference thing. But I'm curious to hear why people love it so much, especially the providers who truly enjoy it. I've tried it before and I didn't see the big deal; it didn't feel any better than regular ol' vag sex. Plus there's the huge potential negative of poor hygiene ruining it--as Jim Jeffries says, you can't smell porn.
And for the providers, it just seems really uncomfortable. I can barely endure a prostate exam, and that's just a finger! A large, manly finger albeit, but a finger nonetheless. I know providers can prepare for it with buttplugs and such, but that just seems like a lot of work.
Thoughts?