Knowing what you know now, about the demimonde, and you were able to do things ALL over again and start fresh (key word) ... what would you do differently?
This question is for both sexes and both sides of our equation.
Thanks,
Elisabeth
Wow that's a great great question, EW.I would have seen THN ALOT sooner
I would have never started posting on this board outside of ads. Its garnered me more enemies that I've never met and likely will never meet nor have they met me. That bothers me a little for some reason. It's weird.
Posting successfully here is an acquired skill and one I could have easily lived without. Considering the kind of negative attention I brought on myself for expressing my opinion poorly in the beginning (and still do on occasion) I would have rather just not posted at all had I to do it over again.
And even though in reality I'm very pragmatic and low key, I've managed to create a "drama queen" label for myself within this two-dimensional platform. That really used to bug me too since I felt misunderstood. I've gotten over it but again, much ado about nothing and a lot of wasted time and concern I could have focused elsewhere.
Reading the board and posting is rather habitual now though. I do it sporadically but I still do it because I enjoy discussing things or because I feel I want to say something. I'm human. Originally Posted by thathottnurse
Over the years, I became more comfortable with sharing personal information with some of my client base, and female participants.Ya having anyone in the hobby too close to your personal life is not a good feeling, especially with how intrusive technology can be.
If I had to do things over again, I would have NEVER shared my first name (and sometimes, last) to some (any?) of the people that I did.
Being too open about my personal life has come back to haunt me more than once.
There are others, but I was waiting until there were more responses. And funny answers are appreciated as well!
Thanks,
Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
I would have seen THN ALOT soonerI'm willing to bet you're not alone.Originally Posted by Frique-Me
Wow that's a great great question, EW.
I would have never started posting on this board outside of ads. Its garnered me more enemies that I've never met and likely will never meet nor have they met me. That bothers me a little for some reason. It's weird.
Posting successfully here is an acquired skill and one I could have easily lived without. Considering the kind of negative attention I brought on myself for expressing my opinion poorly in the beginning (and still do on occasion) I would have rather just not posted at all had I to do it over again.
And even though in reality I'm very pragmatic and low key, I've managed to create a "drama queen" label for myself within this two-dimensional platform. That really used to bug me too since I felt misunderstood. I've gotten over it but again, much ado about nothing and a lot of wasted time and concern I could have focused elsewhere.
Reading the board and posting is rather habitual now though. I do it sporadically but I still do it because I enjoy discussing things or because I feel I want to say something. I'm human. Originally Posted by thathottnurse
There isn't too much I'd do differently. I was given great advice when I started to not be too social, not be too active on the boards, and not trust too many. Originally Posted by Laura LynnGreat advise was given to you, notice the top providers in here, post their weekly ads, their new videos and they are gone.
nobody likes a bitchy woman that picks fight about anything and everything or always seeking attention, Originally Posted by biglatinmale