BBFS???

SERIOUS QUESTION:

Why do some clients want BBFS from their chosen provider?
I think its too risky on so many levels!

There is a SUPER thread about that subject: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=296373

Guys will say it feels good but probably the biggest reason is that it is taboo. It is the thrill of doing the forbidden for a lot of guys.

I have never once asked a provider for BBFS, and I turned it down the one time it was offered to me years ago. But in a perfect, disease-free world, that's what I would want. It has nothing to do with taboo. It has to do with sensation. Some guys apparently get enough sensation through a condom, but I get almost none. That's why I prefer to stick with the traditional uncovered activities like BBBJ, HJ, and all manner of oral activities on her, some of which are much more taboo than BBFS.

Heck I don't even want BBFS when I am alone, condoms keep me and my toys clean!

Because......it's feels so damn good!! Oh, ladies. The hotness, the supreme moisture, the velvety slipperiness.....ohhhhhhh. There's just no other feeling in the world like it. NO OTHER FEELING. Then to cum inside.....pure utopia.

I don't know how good bb feels on your end, ladies, but for us, man, oh man, oh man.
There is just no other comparable feeling. The closest is maybe the 'itis' feeling after you've eaten a really good meal, combined with the feeling of a great massage or relaxing in a tub, combined with maybe being high, combined with the feeling of being in a restful sleep.

All that said, I'm not condoning it. I don't seek it out. I hope I don't get put in a position where I have to make a tough decision on it, for example, she has put my dick in her and a couple pumps have taken place. It's easy to sit here and say you won't get sucked in (no pun intended), but in the heat of the moment, it isn't always that easy.

The best way to avoid bbfs is to not have it in your mind, always have protection available, and don't tamper with temptation. But that's WHY guys want it, ladies. It feels super fucking MEGA-GOOD. It's the greatest feeling in the history of mankind, but the consequences is what keeps most of us in check. There are a few daredevils out there, of course.

Rambo,

That's a refreshing, and very honest, viewpoint. As I see it, you spoke the truth on several fronts.

But since this is Another Realm, I'm seriously thinking of combining this with the same topic in National. But dinner is coming soon so I'll wait to make that decision!!!

Happy Sunday!

Elisabeth

I think there are 2 other reasons. One is the I'm selfish and special. I deserve it attitude some guys have. Second, there is the whole porn world of creampies. I'll be honest; there is something very compelling about seeing your man juices coming back out of a ladies kitty.

On top of those 2 reasons, I can see some cases where there might be a comfortability factor if between an ATF and long time repeat client. I don't know, but I bet that happens a lot and is never mentioned.

I have never once asked a provider for BBFS, and I turned it down the one time it was offered to me years ago. But in a perfect, disease-free world, that's what I would want. It has nothing to do with taboo. It has to do with sensation. Some guys apparently get enough sensation through a condom, but I get almost none. That's why I prefer to stick with the traditional uncovered activities like BBBJ, HJ, and all manner of oral activities on her, some of which are much more taboo than BBFS. Originally Posted by dbflyer

+1

Yes, thats true! It does feel hella good!! but I would think thats something you would want to do with someone you know well.. I think sometimes ppl forget we are providers, and if we do all that request... it wouldn't be the same utopia after a few days

Because......it's feels so damn good!! Oh, ladies. The hotness, the supreme moisture, the velvety slipperiness.....ohhhhhhh. There's just no other feeling in the world like it. NO OTHER FEELING. Then to cum inside.....pure utopia.

I don't know how good bb feels on your end, ladies, but for us, man, oh man, oh man.
There is just no other comparable feeling. The closest is maybe the 'itis' feeling after you've eaten a really good meal, combined with the feeling of a great massage or relaxing in a tub, combined with maybe being high, combined with the feeling of being in a restful sleep.

All that said, I'm not condoning it. I don't seek it out. I hope I don't get put in a position where I have to make a tough decision on it, for example, she has put my dick in her and a couple pumps have taken place. It's easy to sit here and say you won't get sucked in (no pun intended), but in the heat of the moment, it isn't always that easy.

The best way to avoid bbfs is to not have it in your mind, always have protection available, and don't tamper with temptation. But that's WHY guys want it, ladies. It feels super fucking MEGA-GOOD. It's the greatest feeling in the history of mankind, but the consequences is what keeps most of us in check. There are a few daredevils out there, of course. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

When I was last in Las Vegas there were infomercials running on the Casino's cctv that warned against BBFS. Even though it was close to thirty years ago, I remember it vividly: the voice over talked about all of the different abbreviations and nicknames for whatever you wanted, and then announced that if any provider offered BBFS, 'Run, Don't Walk, in Another Direction'.
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I've heard of johns and providers who contracted an STD and decided to go bareback out of spite.
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I won't even go bareback with a significant other until she and I have gone to a doc, together, gotten tested, and received the test results together. It's just not worth the risk. One gal asked me "Don't you trust me?" We had been dating about a month. I answered "Not with my life."

Hmmmmm..good question.

First, I'd say they're one chromosone short and qualify as morons.
Next, they want to provide me with great evidence when I represent their soon-to-be ex-wives.
Next, they're looking forward to paying $$ thru their ass for the next 18 years.
Last, imagining me grudge-fucking their ex-wives atop 1000 copies of the Divorce Decree gets them horny.

Other than that....sounds like fun!

To put it simply, men who ask for BBFS are "in the moment" and not thinking about anything else.

To put it simply, men who ask for BBFS are "in the moment" and not thinking about anything else. Originally Posted by Tatiana M.

I think that is the best description I have ever heard. You are a very observant and wise lady.

I bb with my SB, but at first it was condom all the way.

No offense ladies, but I wouldn't bbfs with a provider under any circumstance. Ever. Period.