He's saying maybe she moved on or something but if she wanted you to know where she was she'd have told you. An unwritten rule in the hobby is to let people be.
Unintended misinformation on my part. It may be a year or more, if at all. Believe me it's a loss for the hobby as her combination of beauty, looks, body, attitude, personality, intelligence and class (yes, class) is so rare in the hobby that it's damned near non-existent. Sad day for purely selfish reasons.