Pulled from LOOKIN4 on the the Arkansas discussion area. I wanted to pass this along.. well written.. Thanks Lookin4 ,,, Your thoughts in reply..
“This may be a difficult thread to get going so I will help. The central problem is that we are not the enigma to women that women are to us. They have known what we want since they developed secondary sexual characteristics. We are incredibly weak and easily led.There are a few things the novice provider will do well to learn.
1)We are more sensitive than you think, especially when behind closed doors. Treat us kindly and we will be back.
2)Find something to like about us. We feel diminished enough by having to pay for sex, being inexperienced,being too small down there, any number of things that we agonize over every day.
3)We get bored easily, don't show us every trick on the first date or you might not get us back for a third.
4)We love it when you listen. If somebody else did we probably would not have come to you today. There is nothing sexier than a woman who seems to find us interesting.
5)We love to be talked to before, during and after that main event. It doesnt have to be porn talk, which only one woman in a hundred can do well anyway, but compliments on technique, gentle suggestions as to what you like, make us feel like the lover we always wanted to be. If more wives understood the power of the gently spoken word, there would not be nearly as many escorts.
6)We like to be tended to after we have reached the mountaintop and are lying exhausted on the bed with a latex sock of spooge dangling from our Johnson. Get a warm washcloth and tidy us up.A farewell pat to the equipment that has performed so well even if, and especially if it may have been a lackluster performance is always nice.
7)We like to think we did a good job. Tell us you had a nice time. Even if what you mean is that it wasnt horrible, didnt hurt, or just that we treated you with respect. We have spent our lives seeking the validation of women, and we go home happier and wish to return sooner if we get it.
There are seven, I know there are others, but thats a start. Of course none of this applies to the self assured cockmaster who is always cool and on his game, but for the rest of us you just might become our all time favorite.
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I have tremendous respect for a woman who tries to make a lot of men happy instead of making one man miserable.”