References

So it turns out this whole thing some girls have about references isn't as easy as it sounds. I have no trouble getting providers to tell me I can use them as references. But once I have a girl asking them about me, they're apparently not actually doing it. Even when I get back in touch to say "Hey, we're still cool on that whole reference thing, right?"

So basically, I'd love advice from you people. Who can I see who A, is hot enough that I'd want to see them, B, doesn't care that most of my references won't actually vouch for me (even after good reviews, which seems kind of selfish), and C, will be references for me later?

I barely glanced at your reviews and if those are the ladies you’re saying didn’t respond to a reference check all I can say is pick different ladies

Edit: maybe ladies who are truly reference friendly can say that here and you’ll find someone that might see you and help you build your references.

As a lady I’m looking for references of other well known ladies with a proven track record. Not to say any of the women you e reviewed are bad in anyway.

I’ve noticed a lot of MILFs seem to take their business serious and will gladly reply to references ...I have many clients whom I will reply to references for all the time for anyone they want to see . It can affect my business if I don’t honestly. Decent guys appreciate that eventually and will repeat a visit with me. Kinda like paying it forward
In a way

That's an idea. Maybe I should post a thread in Coed asking who I can see who'd be a good reference.

Edit: See, your edit actually made that post helpful, and now I look like a dick if I don't edit. Thanks for the tip. Unsarcastically. You're right, MILFs seem more professional. Most of them have been doing this a while. Probably my best bet.

May be they didn't recall who you are
so just don't bother with it

I'm not a MILF but I do take my screening & business serious.

There are a lot of us who give references out
Not every one will be on line every day so may take them longer to get back
This is why Per Screening is best , so when you are ready to set a day and time your screened and ready to go.. But this be way to easy lol

My advice, pony up for p411, makes life so much easier. Yes the site seems like its losing value soo, but its great right now. Even good providers who actually provide references might not be available when you need the reference.

Or just keep doing reviews, plenty of ladies will just check your review history, and skip having to talk with other providers

Yes P411 is a great idea!

I thought p411 was not accepting new applications for clients or providers right now.

That's an idea. Maybe I should post a thread in Coed asking who I can see who'd be a good reference.

Edit: See, your edit actually made that post helpful, and now I look like a dick if I don't edit. Thanks for the tip. Unsarcastically. You're right, MILFs seem more professional. Most of them have been doing this a while. Probably my best bet. Originally Posted by dgc92

If younger is your preference that’s totally fine I just think you’ll build very reliable references starting with someone wet professional.

These ladies might be a good start for you

Kendall4u
Lauren Lynn
Allegra Hope

All wonderful ladies from what I hear and notice from my own experience in reaching out for reference checks

I am super reference friendly!! I take it very seriously, and I always get to get back to the lady ASAP because I know time matters. I have had plenty of well known ladies not get back to me on reference requests. Some wont give out references after a certain amount of time. It all depends on the lady!

This is the male version of the "review special" thread. Say a provider that said she was reference friendly but now can't provider one.

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Most of the gals I contact for a reference do respond, and I let them know I greatly appreciate it.

If I don't hear back from them, I completely understand as this is a busy busy occupation on this side of the tracks.
That...or they are pimped out .... those I suspect never respond.

Just a note, it's important we providers do all we can to protect each other and make sure one doesn't have quirks or special requests we might be uncomfortable with. The guys aren't always forthright about that sometimes.

I usually send out more than three requests if possible. If I get two back with thumbs up, that's all I need.

Considering the provider and her volume, she may not remember you, so giving a detailed description and other side notes that jog her memory helps.

Im reference friendly. I usually respind pretty quickly. Alot of the time on the weekend i get messages really late and im usually unable to verify due to no response.