It's a 50/50 shot she means it. I'd make the odds higher that she does mean it but then all the mongers would chime in about "Hookers can't be trusted". The odds are higher she means it if she is a girl that is not hurting for business.A lot of the old hobby guys seem to forget that they aren't visiting machines, no matter the provider's opinion, or feeling on her job it's an intimate thing. It's only natural that feelings /can/ happen. Especially if a particular person stands out. But it's also natural for the hobbyist to try to dismiss it as advertising tactics.
Some of us genuinely like the people we see. The sex is good, the person makes you feel safe, appreciated, and like the sexiest woman in the world. I've sent the "Miss You" texts before in those situations. (Yes, I knew that texts out of the blue were ok first)
But I would not assume she wants to officially "date". I know I get...uncomfortable when someone starts asking me to "date" them. It can be a sign that a client is about to go crazy and become a stalker. So if I was you I would not broach the subject with her unless she's the one that brings it up. Originally Posted by SAangel27
In my non professional, and extremely under experienced opinion if you like her, and she says she likes you; go for it. You knew what she was when you visited her, didn't stop you then. If you can just remember she's the same person you should be alright. And if it was just a marketing thing you can laugh it off and roll the ball the usual way. There is no harm in it, as long as you don't start stalking her or something. Originally Posted by ktiixThe harm is that some of us are gun shy about finding ourselves in a situation we did not want. I love the hobby. I like the fact I can be as sweet, accommodating, and affectionate as I want and know at the end of the day no one is going to try to tie me down.
It's a 50/50 shot she means it. I'd make the odds higher that she does mean it but then all the mongers would chime in about "Hookers can't be trusted". The odds are higher she means it if she is a girl that is not hurting for business.Yeah, I wouldn't assume anything or ask her out at this point as I know that can creep her out. And I'm not the type to cling or stalk as well and I can let it easily go. As to "Hookers can't be trusted", only simple minded guys would think so. I'm not one of them I would rather spend an hour with a provider coz i know i have her attention than with a civilian slut who just bends over for free to any stranger she meets.
Some of us genuinely like the people we see. The sex is good, the person makes you feel safe, appreciated, and like the sexiest woman in the world. I've sent the "You are awesome" texts before in those situations. (Yes, I knew that texts out of the blue were welcomed first) But just because a girl enjoys you does not mean she wants anything more than the knowledge that you will continue to she her and she knows she has something wonderful to look forward to.
Never assume she wants to officially "date". I know I get...uncomfortable when someone starts asking me to "date" them. It can be a sign that a client is about to go crazy and become a stalker. I have disengaged myself from men who ask to "date" in the past. So if I was you I would not broach the subject with her unless she's the one that brings it up. Originally Posted by SAangel27
A lot of the old hobby guys seem to forget that they aren't visiting machines, no matter the provider's opinion, or feeling on her job it's an intimate thing. It's only natural that feelings /can/ happen. Especially if a particular person stands out. But it's also natural for the hobbyist to try to dismiss it as advertising tactics. Originally Posted by ktiixThat's the problem about the old hobby guys. They think they know the women just because they label them as hookers.
No. I got into this because it allows me to avoid serious attachments. I'm in love with my independence. Besides, part of why I get paid the big bucks is for the reassurance that I WON'T start thinking that way and try to attach myself to one of my clients.
You're making this too complicated. Remember that GFE is an illusion that you're paying for. I'm serious. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport