Lately, I've had quite a few cancellations myself. Very annoying, isn't it? Even when they have an excellent excuse (and especially if you were really looking forward to seeing them!).
What I've tried to do when times are a little slow is instead of lowering my rate (which I did a little over two years ago and haven't since) is try to shake up my advertising some.
Take some new pictures. Be creative. Start a blog.
Find other places to advertise if you tend to stick with just ECCIE or p411. I have found other places to advertise are often really hit or miss. You're not going to have the luck on other sites like you probably will on the two above but you never know!
Try phone sex. Or cam stuff, if that is something that wouldn't bother you.
There's a lot out there in the sex worker world. You're just adorable. Dancing might be something you enjoy!!! In other words, just try thinking about other things to make things start to work again.
But I'll finally tell you what I tell EVERYONE when the economy is slow (and even if it isn't). This is the PERFECT time to go to college and get a degree. You can get student loans, work, get some grants and then you'll have an education even if you decide to not make use of it.
I cannot emphasize ENOUGH ... the important of getting some schooling. Anything. My degree is fairly worthless. It's a BA in English. But I have it and honestly, it's always a good thing to fall back on.
Don't focus on the two year associates. Go for a Bachelor's of something. It's never too late to challenge yourself in this fashion.
Just a few thoughts on a Sunday afternoon. Chin up. Life is always a battle. Think about school. It's one of those things things that when you're older and thinking of the "what if's", you'll never regret.
If you need any help with the five "w's", write me. I'll do all that I can to help.
Sincerely,
Elisabeth
Edited to add: My degree is NOT worthless and I'm taking that back. Being able to complete a course of study not only shows well to future employers but also, it allows one to develop critical thinking skills and gives one more of a world view. This is also helpful if you're self-employed like we are!
A person with an education past high school will also be someone who is ahead of the curve in other ways that I just don't have the room here or the time to go into to. So my degree isn't worthless. Gosh, I'm rattling this afternoon!!! Good luck!