What Makes A Good BBBJ ?

What makes a great bbbj to you,fellas ? Do you like wet and sloppy, or neat and clean? Is there a certain position that turns you on more then others? Does the effort count ? She tried her best but she just wasn't fellatio talented or maybe she was good but you could tell she wasn't into it? How important is a good bbbj, do you add or take away points depending on the performance of the bbbj alone?

I personally like to sloppy wet, lots of eye connection, moving at a rhythm and changing positions.

Ladies do you have any special tricks or techniques you like to do for a great bbbj?
Jessica Jordan
A good cocksucker always show worship to the cock she is sucking. It is her singular focus, to adore the cock in her mouth. There is no one way: As is there is no one way to eat a pussy right.

However: Wet, sloppy, eye contact, ball attention, taint attention and even finger insertion, listening to what arouses the man, passion, addiction, Illusion of Passion, sounds, Trying to swallow the entire cock, choking on in and going right back after it, hand usage to stroke it while you suck it in and out, intent, drive, purpose.

Nothing is better than finding a true cocksucker. Many women suck cock as only a part of the dance. A true cocksucker reveals herself immediately with the altogether abandon when she has a cock in her mouth. Many women think they are good at it, few are experts.

If you have doubts, ask the owner of the cock. Ask him what he wants, explicitly. Do what he tells you. Don't stop even after he cums. Wait until he pushes you away.
TheOtherMan's Avatar
For me, plenty of attention to the boys is a requirement, with a combination of hand and mouth in a steady rhythm (fast or slow, as long as it's steady) near the tip for the finish. I, personally, don't care if it's wet & sloppy or neat, but I don't care for the apparently popular gagging and choking bit. If you can DT me, go for it -- I like the feel of lips around the base of my shaft, but not nearly as much as regular old fellatio. Finally, I like to be sitting up or at least reclining so that I can watch the action.

And remember ladies, we can deal with a spitter, but no one likes a quitter...
GregJM's Avatar
I can honestly say that the worst blow job that I ever had was still great!
But to go into detail, there are basically two kinds of blow jobs. 1. As a precursor to fucking, and 2. Stand-alone.
Either way, the sense that the woman likes sucking my dick is a big turn-on. Eye contact can be important as well as soft moans. Don't forget the tongue action and I like a woman to use her hands, especially stroking my balls and maybe a little anal probing. If in the 69 position be sure to wiggle your ass around and enjoy yourself (even if it is an act). And if you feel an 'O' cumming on, it is OK to stop and concentrate on your own pleasure for a few minutes (for me that is a big turn on).
As a precursor to a fuck a blow job is a good way to get a cock nice and hard, especially for an older guy like me, before slipping it into your pussy. There are so many ways to do this and so many good techniques that I cannot discuss them all here. The main thing for me is to bring me to the edge without cumming. For me the best way to do this is in the 69 position so that I can lick your pussy and asshole while enjoying the exquisite sensation of your lips and tongue on my dick. (Hopefully I can tease an 'O' out of you.)
The most important thing about stand alone blow jobs, as far as I am concerned, is to suck until I cum in your mouth, and keep sucking until I beg for you to stop (this also is nice in the 69 position). The worst thing to do is stop in the middle of my orgasm, gag, choke, or worst of all, decide to do something distracting like scratch your nose (my wife consistently does this and it drives me nuts! I'm not kidding, every fucking time I start to cum in her mouth, she gets and itchy nose and starts scratching it! I think she is allergic to my cum.)
woman on her knees. sloppy as in drool off chin onto tits. taking a break to rub my cock and precum on the ladys face. attention to my balls and a little toma to prove she likes to get dirty. Then when I cum, its in the mouth and on the face. Top it off with a nice doggy in front of a mirror before she cleans up, that is a good bbbj !!
You need to show by your facial expression, eyes, sounds, that you are enjoying that cock like if it was the best popsicle you have ever tasted.

You must kiss it, slap it on your full protruded lips, slap on your tongue, slap it on your cheeks, all whiile smiling with your lips and eyes and keeping eye contact and also talking dirty, like a dirty little cum slut that begs for that cum. You also need to beg for cum and ask to give it to you in your mouth or face.
Crashkopf summed it up. When a woman is so into the act, it becomes unimportant who is on the other end of the cock. It's just her and the cock. It's almost a trance.

As for technique, there's endless opinion, all good.
Zena's Avatar
  • Zena
  • 04-27-2017, 08:58 AM
Crash said it! almost as well as I believe it should be done !!!!
I can't describe it!!! But I can sure DO IT! Few are experts!!! Thank God I'm good at a few things! Very few things, but that's it !!! I'm an EXPERT~ at that! If you want a good casserole, we have to get it elsewhere! If you want a Superior Bbbjtc, cum see me ! LOL.
SlowHand50's Avatar
Crash said it! almost as well as I believe it should be done !!!!
I can't describe it!!! But I can sure DO IT! Few are experts!!! Thank God I'm good at a few things! Very few things, but that's it !!! I'm an EXPERT~ at that! If you want a good casserole, we have to get it elsewhere! If you want a Superior Bbbjtc, cum see me ! LOL. Originally Posted by Zena
A woman with confidence in her ability to get a man hard and keep him there is a huge turn-on to me.
DallasRain's Avatar
about attitude!!


Satyrrical's Avatar
The best I ever had was from a lady who described herself as a tantric goddess. Never figured out what that meant since none of the subsequent tantric types have cum close to matching her. It was essentially slow, sensual cock worship that did not stop until I was completely spent. She may have thrown in some FUMA/TUMA as(s) well.
cowboy8055's Avatar
I like it when a gal varies her technique. Run the tongue up and down the shaft and swirl it around the head. A lot of attention to the head is awesome. Rubbing it on their face is sexy. As long as it's not a cbj I'll be happy. Some eye contact and dirty talk is great as well.
micktoz's Avatar
Wow Jessica, you are blasting this question everywhere. Not complaining, just surprised to see you on the multiple sites.
Not bad for a newbie to these sites.

A great BBBJ is not quantifiable. It's a mixture of personality and actually enjoying finding what works for each person on the receiving end. Of course some people have more talented mouths than others.

Good luck to you Jessica Jordan.
Maggiejewel's Avatar
That is beautifully stated!
bigdickdaddydom's Avatar
eye contact sometimes. deep throat.