What is it about me thinking a lot into sex? I know about daty an bj an dick inside me,but I feel I need more way more like daty for a hour or more I enjoy pressure in sex I want to open the books more an get off just the plan cum an go not fun I need more u need more let's do more but how I am not sure how to talk about it an I'm just putting it out there! I feel open an ready but who else is anbhow do I as a lady go about it???? Originally Posted by amazonskyI haven’t had the time to do a lot of thoughtful writing on here in a while, but sometimes a post just sparks a brain cell and requires a response. And as is often the case, the line of thought it sparks may be a bit different from the original post. So this might take a right turn (or is it a left turn, I can’t tell) from yours, but I think it is connected.
I haven’t had the time to do a lot of thoughtful writing on here in a while, but sometimes a post just sparks a brain cell and requires a response. And as is often the case, the line of thought it sparks may be a bit different from the original post. So this might take a right turn (or is it a left turn, I can’t tell) from yours, but I think it is connected.^^THIS^^
As I read posts I am continually reminded that people are here for many different reasons, and are certainly looking for many different things. But so often I will read a review and a guy essentially says, “She was OK. She looked like her photos and did all the things her reviews said she would. She tried hard. But it wasn’t what I was looking for.”
I often wonder if the guy did more than just look at the photos in the profile/ads and assumed she would somehow be what he wanted without reading. But then I remind myself that so much of a review is seen through the emotionally tinged eyes of a guy who likely doesn’t really remember what occurred because his blood had been pumped away from his brain when he was experiencing it. I have read reviews of a lady describing her as “kind of dull and didn’t have much to say” when I find her charming and a great conversationalist—and the reverse situation as well. I have seen a review of my ATF where the guy felt “rushed out the door when the time was up”, yet I saw her last night and had to remind her we were about three hours over and I should be driving her home now.
So what is a guy supposed to actually do? I was thinking those kind of thoughts when I read your post and it slapped me out of my daydream and was the answer I was looking for. We need to talk with each other more. Yes, I understand this is easier said than done, it takes time, and there is some paranoia involved. I make no claim I know the answer to those valid concerns. But the idealist in me wants to believe there is a way to talk somewhat more openly yet still be careful. Especially if you are looking to explore new, not really defined things. Most folks on here are safe. Many are nice. But a few are neither. Please be careful out there, you are precious and no one should care more about your safety than you do.
And thank you for posting this, even if my thoughts/comments are not what you intended to solicit. But I also suspect you will get a number of comments that might be exactly what you are seeking. Good luck. Originally Posted by Old-T