A hobby lesson learned!!! NULAYLA!!!

I posted this in the Austin Men's Lounge in response to just what you'll read below. IF this dupe isn't allowed, fellow Moderator please do what's right, but this NEEDS to be said.

TIA

On January 11 I'll celebrate my 44th year in the hobby, which ostensibly means that I've seen a couple of things related to the hobby over the years.

Let's take the age old, despicable attacks on young ladies for example: This is where people comment in threads with the express intent to stall the business of a provider or insult her for their own jollies or to gain some sense of power.

Why would anyone, on purpose, take the time to slam someones' services or appearance if they've not seen her. On the other side of the coin....who knows when someone (a provider) might contact Nulayla to ask about YOUR handle?

How about having some GOOD HOBBY SENSE and treat these young women with some respect until you've seen her in person and been robbed or the like?

Instead of yakkin' a mile a minute about her appearance or tattoos or service levels?

I've known Nulayla since 2007 and I'm going to post a link to her reviews on another WELL RESPECTED site from CA.

Plus, I'm going to tell you this without reservation.........

LAYLA IS GORGEOUS, ADORABLE, FUN, OMNI-ORGASMIC AND SWEET, and just a general blast to play with!

http://www.myredbook.com/showpro.aspx?id=837677

Look at the 5 pages if you like.

If I were some of the people commenting on Nulayla and I do mean IF, I'd take the time to research and get some accurate information before I open my yap and disrespect someone.

You can believe this or not believe it, but PROVIDING is a difficult endeavor. You NEVER on first glance know who or WHAT is going to show up. What kind of hygiene they may have, what size they are both physically and physically. If they're loaded, drunk or just plain crazy. Or, even worse, if they are STALKER potential.

Some girls just go through the motions for the money, but I know this to be true.....for many, each session...they will give a tiny piece of their spirit and soul in order to share their bodies with hobbyists and in some cases, when we get lucky, there is a connection!!!! WOW that part is fun as hell!!!

Layla has stellar reviews from Redbook! STELLAR!!!! She's adored summarily and I cannot for the life of me figure out why so many have so little good to say about her having never seen her.

Learn something from this. I had to learn it myself many years ago.

If you have nothing nice to say about someone you do NOT know. SAY NOTHING! I guarantee you your dignity won't suffer.

tra

I posted this in the Austin Men's Lounge in response to just what you'll read below. IF this dupe isn't allowed, fellow Moderator please do what's right, but this NEEDS to be said.
Originally Posted by tra4fun

Ok, so as a Mod, you know that ANYTHING posted in a ML or Powder Room is not allowed to be posted or quoted in an open forum.

So tell me where you think it's ok for you to post verbatim in this forum what you posted in the Austin ML. As I see it this is a clear violation of posting rules.

Please feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.

Or perhaps as with this thread to begin with, I missed the whole damn point.

In her 3 reviews in austin, no one said anything negative about her looks, if anything applauded. The issues were 3 VERY SUSPICIOUS reviews, all by newbies who usually joined that week and had only taken the time to comment on her reviews to date. Plus the whole $300 cbj isn't the norm in austin with our providers.

I believe the original poster can post his thread wherever he pleases. He did not copy any posts from his thread other than his first post. So how is that some violation?

It might not be a rule, but it probably ain't a good idea.

Loose lips sink ships.

Why not just give us a link to the thread in question and those that are permitted to read it can read it?

I never really liked that idea of the peanut gallery being able to talk smack after reviews here...unless they have actually seen or had email communications with said lady, hence my very few reviews on this board.

I think a review should stand on its own and if a guy who has not seen her has a question, simply ask back channel. Reviews are graphic enough without the ten million added inquiries pertaining to services and almost an exact location. Way too many things are posted without being moderated beforehand, and then it's too late.

Too many guys have a personal issue and feel the ladies review format is their chance to get their licks in...it's tacky and beyond immature, and it does not really do a darn thing lol. If her service was that bad or she was that unprofessional, guys would not still be reviewing said lady.

I don't know the entire story here pertaining to this situation, but will say I agree with the basic premise the OP is trying to present. If a girl wants to charge $300 for a cbj and guys are willing to pay it, why does that annoy so many other guys? It's because they don't give a flying flip about the individual, but moreso about price fixing and making sure no one sees someone they can't afford. Jealousy breeds contempt, even with the boys I suppose.

I posted this in the Austin Men's Lounge in response to just what you'll read below. IF this dupe isn't allowed, fellow Moderator please do what's right, but this NEEDS to be said. Originally Posted by tra4fun

I believe the original poster can post his thread wherever he pleases. He did not copy any posts from his thread other than his first post. So how is that some violation? Originally Posted by pyramider

Point taken, and if he didn't say that he originally posted in the ML, I would have no issue. All he had to do was post in it's original form without the ML comment.

I posted this in the Austin Men's Lounge in response to just what you'll read below. IF this dupe isn't allowed, fellow Moderator please do what's right, but this NEEDS to be said.

TIA

On January 11 I'll celebrate my 44th year in the hobby, which ostensibly means that I've seen a couple of things related to the hobby over the years.

Let's take the age old, despicable attacks on young ladies for example: This is where people comment in threads with the express intent to stall the business of a provider or insult her for their own jollies or to gain some sense of power. Originally Posted by tra4fun

You make some pretty wild assumptions on the motivations of other hobbyists on why they post. From what I can see, they gave feedback on a series of suspect reviews. A provider could take that as market feedback, or she could take that as insult. The posts that I can find seem to be more feedback on why the posters aren’t booking with her instead of insults.

Why would anyone, on purpose, take the time to slam someones' services or appearance if they've not seen her. On the other side of the coin....who knows when someone (a provider) might contact Nulayla to ask about YOUR handle?

Again, I don’t see the slam. As for some provider asking a random (since the posters have not seen Nulayla, I highly doubt they would list her as a reference) provider about a handle…you are grasping at straws.

How about having some GOOD HOBBY SENSE and treat these young women with some respect until you've seen her in person and been robbed or the like?

How about having the good hobby sense to not jump into the defense of a provider in multiple without understanding what happened?

Instead of yakkin' a mile a minute about her appearance or tattoos or service levels?

Is this an escort review board or did I get here by mistake? Damned, I was trying to get on ECCIE.

I've known Nulayla since 2007 and I'm going to post a link to her reviews on another WELL RESPECTED site from CA.

Plus, I'm going to tell you this without reservation.........

LAYLA IS GORGEOUS, ADORABLE, FUN, OMNI-ORGASMIC AND SWEET, and just a general blast to play with!

http://www.myredbook.com/showpro.aspx?id=837677

Look at the 5 pages if you like.

OK, she’s popular where she is (from). We also get that you like her.

If I were some of the people commenting on Nulayla and I do mean IF, I'd take the time to research and get some accurate information before I open my yap and disrespect someone.

Again, the closest thing to “disrespect” I see is against newbie posters with sub 10 posts and their 1st reviews are of Nulayla. 3 of them, in fact, in a short period of time. Unless those three reviewers are Nulayla, where is the disrespect toward her?

You can believe this or not believe it, but PROVIDING is a difficult endeavor. You NEVER on first glance know who or WHAT is going to show up. What kind of hygiene they may have, what size they are both physically and physically. If they're loaded, drunk or just plain crazy. Or, even worse, if they are STALKER potential.

What does this have to do with the issue at hand? It could be difficult or easy, that should not affect expression of opinions, information, feedback or reviews.

Some girls just go through the motions for the money, but I know this to be true.....for many, each session...they will give a tiny piece of their spirit and soul in order to share their bodies with hobbyists and in some cases, when we get lucky, there is a connection!!!! WOW that part is fun as hell!!!

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Again…this has nothing to do with disrespect being wrong, no disrespect was given Nulayla, and talking about rainbows, kittens and puppies won’t change those facts.

Layla has stellar reviews from Redbook! STELLAR!!!! She's adored summarily and I cannot for the life of me figure out why so many have so little good to say about her having never seen her.

OK, her reviews might be great on Redbook, but in Austin, her first three reviews are by newbies with their only review being of her. She may be a great girl and a provider, nobody said otherwise.

Learn something from this. I had to learn it myself many years ago.

If you have nothing nice to say about someone you do NOT know. SAY NOTHING! I guarantee you your dignity won't suffer.

tra

Thanks for the lecture, however, you should do your research with an impartial mind before coming to a city’s board and condemning guys there of insulting and willfully trying to destroy someone’s business.

Being that reviews are for the hobbiest it shouldn't really matter what the providers think about them other than they should be true and show respect where the respect is due. I kinda have an issue with providers that say they aren't really valueable. They are not for them at all but for the hobbyist. The OP has said he has been in the hobby for 44 years and I'm sure the ability to research his prospective providers is way better now than when he began. The providers have all their rooms they talk in where some haters try to do damage to a hobbyist reputation. It's fair that we discuss things all we want from our side. The main thing that I want to stress is be truthful. There are so great quality providers out there that I'm sure have had some bad press that's not deserved and there are stuck up mean hurtful providers out there doing the same thing. It's up to us to wade thru the bullshit so the more info we get the better.

This thread should help the provider in question out.

Instead of yakkin' a mile a minute about her appearance or tattoos or service levels? Originally Posted by tra4fun

How does one become a mod on a review board, and have no fucking clue what a review board is for?

You should be honest with yourself and remove Super Moderator from beneath your name and change it to White Knight.

LF

How does one become a mod on a review board, and have no fucking clue what a review board is for?

You should be honest with yourself and remove Super Moderator from beneath your name and change it to White Knight.

LF Originally Posted by LadiesFan

Ouch!

Could not resist!! Y'all have way too much time on your hands!!
Any nimrod can see thru all the BS. Give it a rest! PLEASE! Lets
get back to doing what we all do!!Enjoy providers!!

Dice