Lunch / Dinner / Happy Hour with Providers

Will you Providers be willing to meet hobbyist for lunch or dinner at a decent place where the hobbyist can spend time with you just talking and getting to know you? Condition:

-- Hobbyist pays for the meal / drinks
-- Venue has to be decent and classy
-- Providers either don't charge or a token charge

I understand that time is money for everyone, but let's say if you, as a Provider, had nothing going on, will you be willing to meet?

Besides BCD fantasies, some guys may also like to just spend time with a lady sharing his life stories, talking and just have casual fun over a meal.

What do you think ladies?
Honestly, until the guys started bashing the hell out of me to assist thier favorites. I use to give this to my clients on a selective level.

Hey but now, my regular, new clients and I, agree that I have been used and abused.*shaking my head*

So I can-not personally agree to this free of charge anymore. However still love to accompany the guys out on an evening or even for a bunch style date.
I haven't had many opportunities to do any of the mini meetings like you describe. MY reasons are that I am busiest working during the day and I have a family to take care of in the evenings. Many know that my dad is disabled so I devote a lot of spare time to him.

Watch the board for upcoming socials/meet and greets and you will probably meet many many ladies that you would be interested in.

Good luck to you either way darlin'!
I have attended socials and they are a lot of fun and wouldn't miss one. I am just refering to one-on-one casual friendship time over lunch/dinner/happy hour....
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Private Encounter - I'll go with ya doll.





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You need to take MarieLynn up on her offer. She is a sweetheart and a lot of fun to be with.
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  • 03-03-2010, 06:31 AM
I go out all the time with guys off the board for a little supper and drinks..I have even went to the movies...I dont see in any harm in it.....
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Dinner is always better when you have a pretty lady to enjoy it with!!
Cannot think of anything more that I would like to do than have dinner out with one of our lovely ladies on my arm.
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Will you Providers be willing to meet hobbyist for lunch or dinner at a decent place where the hobbyist can spend time with you just talking and getting to know you? Condition:

-- Hobbyist pays for the meal / drinks
-- Venue has to be decent and classy
-- Providers either don't charge or a token charge

I understand that time is money for everyone, but let's say if you, as a Provider, had nothing going on, will you be willing to meet?

Besides BCD fantasies, some guys may also like to just spend time with a lady sharing his life stories, talking and just have casual fun over a meal.

What do you think ladies? Originally Posted by Private Encounter

Hello,

I have done this with a few of my clients. I normally only do it with gentleman that I have seen atleast once. That is only because I wanted to obtain a comfort level. It was just for fun. No Money involved unless there was BCD time.

But I have gone to the movies and out to dinner with clients before and had a blast. Not everything in this world needs to be about money. Sometimes you have to sit back and enjoy life sometimes.
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I've had the pleasure of a dinner date with one lovely lady on multiple occasions. All I can say is that it was a blast. Getting time to talk and be in a non bcd setting was a welcomed change. It helped us get more comfortable with eachother. In turn, this led to better bcd experiences. The best part is being seen with a hot woman that you have no business being with in the real world. She leans in with a small kiss to reassure you and confirm to everyone she's with you. The looks on other guys faces is priceless as they drool over her.
Yes, I understand and yes, I HAVE been to lunches, dinners, movies...all of those things. It is actually quite fun!

I am SUCKER for a good burger! LOL! Now, who wants to take me to the Omni to see Alice in Wonderland?
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Not everything in this world needs to be about money. Sometimes you have to sit back and enjoy life sometimes. Originally Posted by Kristin Keys
IMHO a most astute statement.

I've had some very fun times 'off the clock' with ladies in the past. I also feel that ladies can look at this kind of thing as purely enjoying yourself or as a marketing endeavor. I also believe this type of social interaction is not for all gents or ladies.
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Kind of like a movie that's about to hit the theatres, "She's way out of my league." it would be really funny to go to the movie with a provider. There would be some interesting looks I'm sure.
I'm sure most that have not had this type of experience will enjoy it.
If you get a provider willing to take you up on it. Go for the gold guys or do we want silver....? lol *shaking my head*