Acronym help

Hey everyone. Total newbie here to the site and spent last 3-days reading (and reading). I have a lot to learn and got stuck on the acronyms. Think i found most of them on urban dictionary, but some have several meanings. Is there a list someone can point me to?

Hey everyone. Total newbie here to the site and spent last 3-days reading (and reading). I have a lot to learn and got stuck on the acronyms. Think i found most of them on urban dictionary, but some have several meanings. Is there a list someone can point me to? Originally Posted by PhoK

you go first.. does your handle mean "fuck"?

Start here: https://redbook.scarletalliance.org.au/abbreviations/

you go first.. does your handle mean "fuck"? Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Most Americans would say "Fohk" - lol. I just love pho, so it seemed appropriate

Start here: https://redbook.scarletalliance.org.au/abbreviations/ Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

Thanks! I think I have all the L's figured out, but what's the difference between L3 & GFE? And why the plus after some acronyms like GFE++ ? Very girlfriend like?

Thanks! I think I have all the L's figured out, but what's the difference between L3 & GFE? And why the plus after some acronyms like GFE++ ? Very girlfriend like? Originally Posted by PhoK

L3 is usually a term used for girls that do massages with happy endings - L3 being full sex vs BlowJob (BJ = L2) and Handjob (HJ = L1)

GFE supposedly means Girl Friend Experience but that's an exaggeration unless you're expecting to get bitched at for your choice restaurant/friends etc.

In the hobby I think most use GFE to be an expression of an hour of paid sex with a stranger romanticized into how you might end the evening with your real world girl - lots of kissing, hugs, and pleasure sharing.

As opposed to PSE (Porn Star Experience) more of the hard pounding including greek (anal sex) with lots of moans of ecstasy authentically delivered by your well paid companion.

Both GFE and PSE terms are widely used and have no hard and fast definitions. My personal ideal in the hobby is a session with a woman I could fantasize was a girl from my early years who had done porn so she was totally experienced in licking all of my parts, me licking and penetrating all of her parts, and a finale that usually ended up with my swim team going down her gullet.

Some reviewers back when used GFE+++ as a secret code for fucking without a condom. A popular code still used sometimes is "The Don", or "Don Corleone appeared" or "she is Don Friendly" - all an homage to Don Corleone from the Godfather Movie "Made him an offer he couldn't refuse".

Currently there are a lot of usages of the term "catholic" also meaning sex without condoms, taken from the church's aversion to birth control

Thanks mtabsw. This answers a lot of questions.

Also learn that what things are suppose mean, don't always mean that. There's a lot if scams as I like to call them of things being advertised that are not offered. You'll get the hang of it sooner or later

Also learn that what things are suppose mean, don't always mean that. There's a lot if scams as I like to call them of things being advertised that are not offered. You'll get the hang of it sooner or later Originally Posted by BLM69

I will take that at face value, but not entirely sure what my takeaway is. I guess if it's too good to be true, than it probably is

These two have no meaning anywhere I can find - DPMO& CW.


And IOP can't imply Inside Out Penis - correct?

These two have no meaning anywhere I can find - DPMO& CW.


And IOP can't imply Inside Out Penis - correct? Originally Posted by PhoK

DPMO I believe is an original one I started using awhile back and it's a critical factor for returning - Doesn't Piss Me Off

CW is Cock Worship, which I think is fairly common and self explanatory. Google it on pornhub.

IOP is very commonly used here - Illusion Of Passion is the remarkable ability of a hooker to make you believe she is truly getting thrills and chills from your skills. It is much sought after, despite the obvious falsehood.

DPMO I believe is an original one I started using awhile back and it's a critical factor for returning - Doesn't Piss Me Off

CW is Cock Worship, which I think is fairly common and self explanatory. Google it on pornhub.

IOP is very commonly used here - Illusion Of Passion is the remarkable ability of a hooker to make you believe she is truly getting thrills and chills from your skills. It is much sought after, despite the obvious falsehood. Originally Posted by mtabsw

Thanks!! I did find Don't Piss Me Off, but thought it had a different meaning here. Feel like I have a good idea of most of the acronyms, so appreciate the response.


BTW. The Columbus Blue Jackets are starting a fourth overtime right now, and I will never unsee the CBJ on the score line. LOL

There's also www.urbandictionary.com

Also learn that what things are suppose mean, don't always mean that. There's a lot if scams as I like to call them of things being advertised that are not offered. You'll get the hang of it sooner or later Originally Posted by BLM69

This is especially true of ladies offering GFE. Every lady seems to have a different idea about what it means, and they are all insistent that their definition is correct. Kissing? French kissing? BJ with condom, or without? Bareback anything? Who knows what a provider is going to offer when she says "GFE". And since most providers won't discuss actual services before the session, you can't really ask them directly what they mean.

I'm sure they have the same problem with hobbyists. They probably have guys asking all the time if they are "GFE" without clarifying what that means to them. I've seen guys insist that GFE means BBBJ, and PSE means anal.

I use those terms to discuss attitude rather than specific acts. to me, GFE would be an illusion of passion (which is why I like the IOP term instead), where she is making you feel comfortable and acting like she is having a good time with you. PSE, on the other hand, would be high-energy multiple position, dirty talk, porn-star fucking.

The hobby has no set rules, no quality control, no structure! This is why low quality old ladies are asking for young hot girl rates. It's better to research, repeat and research again! Then ask questions, then hope for the best. Welcome to the hobby 2020, a far cry from just 5 years ago