Are threesomes hard to arrange?

  • comet
  • 03-27-2023, 06:32 PM
I reached out to a couple escorts (separately). When I asked if they did doubles, things went cold. Their ads both said "service by two providers." How is the best way to go about this?
ben dover's Avatar
You may have asked the right question but the wrong way. They may be thinking you're asking for 2 guys and her which is MFM. Ask if they have a "Duo" partner, that is FMF. A lot of girls do duos but aren't completely into it, think "Gay for Pay" These are still fun but try to find two ladies that are into each other and your life will change!
Pangolier's Avatar
You can always ask "Do you have any friends who are escorts and offer duos with you"? Be prepared to pay more.
  • comet
  • 03-27-2023, 11:32 PM
Both very good input, thank you.
Bushjumper's Avatar
Check the reviews in your 'area' for the ones of two ladies who 'serviced' the guy who wrote the review. And just decide which team you want. Engage one of them in a one on one to see how it goes, and if it all goes well. Put the 'question' to her.
MarcellusWalluz's Avatar
Who are these "escorts" you're contacting?
Most ladies on STG & similar sites won't want to meet up with another lady they don't know.
Getting 3 separate schedules to align is always a chore as well.
Reach out to some established ladies in your area, alot of them are members here.
Most will suggest other ladies that are cool with it or that they prefer to play with.
The majority of ladies that offer doubles prefer to handle the logistics themselves.
Just be sure to let them know beforehand what your expectations are.
Typically when i see a new provider the question I always ask as if they have a doubles partner.

This is always in-person so I can watch her reaction. You can tell immediately...
lala89's Avatar
I've always wondered this. I've had 2 great experiences with 3 ways, but the client always set it up with the other girl.

I'm curious on the best way to set up a business relationship with another girl and how often clients expect me to "have someone" already in mind for them too when they ask about threeways. I'm happy to do so, but don't want to just randomly message other DFW providers and say "Hey, want to be my threesome partner?"
ben dover's Avatar
I would contact a girl or a few girls in your area and just ask to meet for coffee, it would be good to have some female friends that you can talk with anyway. bring up the subject and see where it goes.
See if any mongers have had a doubles session and get their off the record thoughts. I’ve heard of girls that offer doubles and it ends up being a long list of restrictions to where it is awkward and the polar opposite of fun. So definitely check with them ahead of time. A lot of times a “booking agent” will advertise doubles because it’s more money but the girls have no chemistry with each other and it’s awful.

I’ve had experiences with doubles where nothing is off the table and those can be really fun. These are actually pretty rare and you have to be comfortable with both girls. Getting the girls to compete to get your first nut is a blast, no pun intended.

To be perfectly candid, it’s a bucket list thing and nothing more. So make it count and ensure you got the right ladies for the job.
GypsyHeart's Avatar
Last duo was with another provider friend who is into girls so that is always fun. But in the past I have wrangled personal friends into working with me which was way more intense.
TravelingGentleman's Avatar
Definitely, 100% make sure that when you're talking to a provider about a duo - ASK IF SHE IS INTO WOMEN. I've had the unhappy experience of not asking, and finding duo services that were just two ladies both focused on me, with no playing with each other.
Amaya Vergara's Avatar
It was hard for me to find a doubles partner.

* I am truly bi so "gay for pay" is a turn off for me: most gentlemen pick up on that anyway and I like to give them their moneys worth when they see me/us.
* I only partake in wine or beer while in session. (limited)
* I screen, so she must as well.
* Sharing personal information. That´s a huge problem for me.
* I´m a little picky with women. I love the lipstick kind.

The list goes on... but I am very happy that I found two amazing ladies.

So to answer the your questions. The answer in my opinion is ¨yes.¨
ben dover's Avatar
Thanks for chiming in! Love your images, damn if only I was in Dallas...
I have had five sessions of duos and if the ladies are bi then it's much more fun. My last one was with two lesbians and it was the best. Every now and then lesbians wants dick and I was lucky guy to give it to them.