Submissive Providers: More Difficult?

Iaintliein's Avatar
I was just browsing model portfolios on a well known civilian site and came across a couple of ladies with photos of themselves in restraints in their portfolios.

A common theme at that site is that ladies who pose nude, even many who don't insist on bringing an "escort" to the shoot. This is understandable of course, but it's something a provider simply can not do.

Being physically restrained obviously makes an encounter potentially more dangerous. I'm sure the ladies who play this way screen more than most, but how can they advertize? I think I've only see one or two photos in my years here and on the old board of providers restrained.

Just curious. . . now back to your regularly scheduled debauchery.
Ms. Athena's Avatar
It all begins with trust on both sides.........
Are you wanting a female sub?
Iaintliein's Avatar
Are you wanting a female sub? Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*
Just curious really.
blowpop's Avatar
D&S is all about exchanging power, and for that to happen, trust must be established. That's one reason that I consider P4P D&S to be more "D&S lite" - I don't see how the required level of trust for an intense scene can develop or the course of an hour or two.

That being said, I've been fortunate enough to play with a handful of providers who were delightful little subbies, even on our first encounter. I hope they're very good judges of character, and not just making risky decisions.
buttlover7777's Avatar
I am looking for a female sub.
houston_switch's Avatar
blowpop...
If you play with the same provider multiple times, you can develop a relationship where power exchange and trust is heightened.
I don't think I would ever feel that much trust with a client.
burkalini's Avatar
Head down and ass up is enough submissiveness for me. Lol just thought I would add that's her ass up and not me before you started the jokes.
A Provider turning her back towards me so that I can doggy her pussy or ass is about all the trust I expect regarding a business transaction.
if i can get one to do the pornstar drool Im happy.
VIPRaniLane's Avatar
"HEAVY screening is required for those seeking sessions with me being the submissive partner." At least that's what my ads say

Tempted to sell my S&M kit in a garage sell might be valuable that way.